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Search Results: maintain high standards
The Double-Standard of Political Correctness
We live in a society dominated by political correctness, and as such there are double standards in our society imposed by PC. While mocking and criticizing men and whites is not only permitted, but generally encouraged....
Body Shaming Doesn't Work
Body shaming has been the talk in the media for quite a while now, and for good reason. People are being shamed by others for the amount of fat that rests on their bones, and it's not okay. It just doesn't work one bit....
Are these reasonable standards?
So I want to start this by saying my general standards aren't written in stone. If you have most but not all of the attributes and we hit it off good deal. I've dated enough to know what my deal breakers are and let that...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Secret to Being Yourself and Not Giving a Fuck!
Living In a State of Feedback As humans we tend to believe that we are who we are as a result of our own will, but the truth is that our personality has been modified in order to fit a social standard. We live in a...
dpeguero
Xper 6 Age: 35 This One Concept Will Change The Way You View Success Instantly! Didn't Know it Was This Simple!
What's the definition of success? To me the definition of success is achieving something that you set your mind to. Pretty obvious, right? To me it is. But I feel like the question that we should be asking is "what is...
dpeguero
Xper 6 Age: 35 Why I think so many men (and women) have an issue with the word Feminist!
As someone who actually does believe in gender equality and (tries) to treat people equally and examine any subconscious biases I may have, I'm curious about why the feminist movement seems to get so much bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Im probably going to be alone romantically all my life and im okay with it. You should be too and it has many advantages.
Previously I exterted a huge amount of effort into pursuing women. I read a massive amount of literature, I explored many new avenues of expanding my social life like joining a fraternity and various school clubs, I...
serp777
Yoda Age: 34 Stereotypes About Black Women
As a black teenage girl, I have had my fair share of stereotypes. It makes me sad, because I, and other black females get put into this stereotype that is just not true, and i thought I'd write this take to clear up some...
Three Types of Satements in Logic
Opinion Entitlement Content 1. Popular Belief 2. Three Types of Satements Baseless Opinion Fallacious Logic Sound Logic 3. The Dark Side 4. Close(?) 1. Popular Belief When a person says "Everyone is Entitled To Their...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it weird that I'm almost 23 and never been asked out?
Is it weird that I'm almost 23 and never been asked out, iv never had a boyfriend or been kissed or anything. I wouldn't say I'm awful looking but I'm defiantly not super attractive. I work in beauty so I'm always...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can you find out which tattoo shops are good?
Of course all of them give you that standard spiel about hygiene and how they're different. Then they only show you their best work. They never show the pieces that failed. So how can you find out which tattoo shops will...
confugirl
Yoda Age: 33 I need to watch myself around my friend.....
Anyone ever been in the situation where you're smarter than a friend? I seem to be in that situation and I'm not sure how to handle it. We both attend university together and have been good friends since freshman year...
Anonymous
(30-35) You can't have any game and have very high standards?
Brother's friend told me that I might as well be condemning myself to celibacy if I maintain my level of standards and have "the worst social skills he's ever seen short of autism". I have trouble taking this guy...
Anonymous
(36-45) Unfashionable to work at relationships?
I've noticed a real change in society's attitudes towards relationships since I was a girl.. or at least a shift in emphasis from accepting certain differences and working on problems, to simply rejecting any relationship...
Anonymous
(36-45) Have you ever been bullied for getting good grades?
I'm a freshman in high school, and I've always gotten good grades. I've been laughed at or called teachers pet and stuff before, but lately the mean names and jokes have been getting to me. Its okay if other people from...
mik1997
Xper 4 Age: 31 Every tip and trick I know about losing weight and exercise.
First off, let me make this very clear that I'm not certified in anything. All the information I'm going to share I've gleaned over the extent of my 23 years of life from various sources. Do not take my word as law,...
MrEM4N
Explorer Age: 37 Guys make me feel so ugly. They put so much pressure on us girls to look a certain way. Who else is with me!?
AARRGGGGGH! I'm so frustrated right now! Guys put so much pressure on us females to obtain a certain set of looks! Guys who often aren't even super hot with amazing muscles and ripped abs! Just saying, if a guy is going...
Anonymous
(30-35) I need help with my resume...
I just seemed not to be getting any call backs from all the positions I have been applying for. I don't know why. I have decent amount of retail experience, meeting sales quotas, customer service stuff like that but...
brettb
Xper 7 Age: 34 Do you think you should only try to date someone you are extremely attracted to?
I have noticed my standards have decreased in the last couple years, it is mostly because I haven't had much luck getting a girlfriend. Do you think one should always maintain their standards high even if it means well...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I enjoy life more?
im a guy in my early 20s, and to be honest, I've never had a girlfriend, or much female interest, let alone from girls that actually appeal to me, none in that department in fact. but I'm the kind of guy that wants to...
Anonymous
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