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Im probably going to be alone romantically all my life and im okay with it. You should be too and it has many advantages.

Previously I exterted a huge amount of effort into pursuing women. I read a massive amount of literature, I explored many new avenues of expanding my social life like joining a fraternity and various school clubs, I composed a journal to record my interpretation of the interactions I had with a woman, I tried to talk to women at all the possible locations the I could including online with tinder,etc. Nevertheless I've being rejected many hundreds of times.



The funny thing is that I'm considered attractive according to women, about a 7. Its easy for me, for instance, to make out with women at a club. And not to tute my own horn here but I'm very tall, I'm fairly social and have a nunber of friends including women, I'm very hygenic, I'm intelligent and well educated, I have a large amount of money invested in stocks and the interest is enough to pay for my loans for a while after accounting for inflation, i have an internship and im working on a startup, I can discuss a wide range of subjects, I'm fairly confident, and I have a breadth of interests and stories.


I promise I'm not trying to brag here; I dont care about the impressions of random gag users. I'm just trying to give you a sense that regardless of how much of a catch certain men are, it doesn't directly cause women to have a romantic interest in you.


I'm convinced that certain factors, such as our genetics and certain personality types, are the most important factors for predicting romantic attraction and longevity. It turns out that the scientific research shows that there is a significant correlation with respect to genetic similarities between those who date. This makes sense because compatible genetics coincide with similar genotypes, and in effect there is a higher probobility of producing offspring that dont have defects and are functionally complete, thus leading to a more succesful evolutionary outcome.


The way in which humans detect genotypes and compatibility is through smell and taste. Kissing and pheromones convey massive amounts of information about genetic compatibility.


Because of the guassian distribution of human genetic differences, some people will have a set of genetics that aren't compatible enough with anyone else , which results in a complete lack of success. since genetics also likely have an impact on personality, personality elements follow a similar distribution and can be similarly incompatible. The combination of An incompatible personality along with incompatible genetics makes the pursuit of women even more futile. The symptoms include a rapidly decaying level of interest even if there is initial attraction and an abundant number of rejections. The key thing is an inability to maintain anyform of relationship beyond friendship regardless of social skills.


The point of all this analysis Is that for some people dating is futile and time is better spent elsewhere. i have determined that i am in this category and probably many of you are too. I would guess that at least 1% of the population doesn't have suitable genetics to contribute to the gene pool according to evolutionary standards that have developed over the past ten million years.


Its much better to invest time in other areas of your life like philanthropy, self improvement, and hobbies. Spending so much time attempting to date has created a lot of unpleasant emotional baggage for me and also demamded much of my time that could have been spent elsewhere. People waste so much of their life looking for someone to appreciate them and enjoy life with but really only end up with depression and loneliness or end up with someone they realize they hate. Dating inevitably leads to pain, and for most people a lot of it.


Spending time with many friends Can help fill the void though. Avoiding dating also has monetary advantages and saves you from experiencing the inevitable pain of death or being left. It prevents any possible stds and avoids unwanted pregnancies and the chance of producing a kid with some serious flaw. Furthmore for the future of the human race it's best that some people dont contribute to the gene pool. Its just evolution in progress.


So throw off your shackles. accept that you dont have a future with the opposite gender. spend time making your life worth living and make the world a better place as a result of your life. Thats what matters, not whether you can stick your penis in someone or have someone stick their penis in you. Thats why we can forget about dating --to do things that actually matter. Is it sad that people like us probably won't experience mutual love? Yes, but we can do great things while enjoying it; so In conclusion, lets focus on what matters and give up on things we cannot change.


Im probably going to be alone romantically all my life and im okay with it. You should be too and it has many advantages.


Im probably going to be alone romantically all my life and im okay with it. You should be too and it has many advantages.
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