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i have been a college student for about 3 years i met plenty of people and made lots of friends, three of my closest buddies have this female friend that became my friend as well (even though i never meant for that to happen and never made any effort to contact her after school) , during the first year she would be shy around me and always staring at me, even now a couple years later she stares at me sometimes when she's thinks iam not looking... i probably have to mention that i get a lot of attention from girls everywhere i go, i been approached few times and got tons of compliments from all kinds of girls, iam aslo 6'2 and work out regularly (Not ripped though) so attracting women is fairly easy for me.

lately she's been acting extra annoying ( she is annoying) and insulting me , i am chill so at first i let it slide but it got so annoying to the point i asked her why she keeps acting like that (wanted our friend to pcik her up and skip me on their way to school knowing fully well i have no other ride ) and then she verbally started attacking and threatening me (she found out iam not someone she can play with ) so i decided to cut her out of my life, and te next time i saw her i didn't look at her nor even talk to her , in fact i am far happier now and prefer to not have any female friendsv... i have heard from a couple people that she probably had something for me but i was ignoring her efforts and that got her mad and aggressive , my response Was " it was never gonna happen anyways, and acting like a b*tch is not the way to go to begin with "

If a person was not a perfect balance, would you like a person who;

A: Too Assertive. Comes off as possibly a little aggressive, when he/she says no they don't sugar coat it, they ALWAYS speak up and say something if they feel like it. If they disagree, they let it be known. They are bold and don't care what you think of them.

Too Passive: Quieter, shy. They only disagree on major things. They're a bit awkward. They avoid confrontation. They are easily influenced. They can be stepped on yet feel guilty if they stick up for themselves. They people please. They instantly reply They try to fit in, and they're always instantly there for you so you possibly take you for granted.

So I met a girl a work and she's super cute, she's pretty nice and I like her so far. I know, bad idea I shouldn't be interested in coworkers. I work in a grocery store and she is a bagger/cashier and I am a supervisor of all cashiers and baggers. Which I know is probably not the best idea either. I like her though and I've talked to her a little. Someone told me they talked to her about me liking her. When I see her at work she seems interested somewhat, like sometimes I'll catch her staring at me or she will be like facing in my direction and looking at something else. The normal body language of interest. I asked her for her number and she said yes. So I texted her and we talked a little. After a few text that where a little spaced out she warned me saying she's bad at texting meaning she'll forget to respond or miss a text. I still attempted to text her anyway. After texting for a little more she just stopped texting me like yesterday. She's super shy and awkward in person and I find it adorable and interesting. I want to get to know her and develop a relationship. But I'm dumb and can't tell what she wants. I don't want to be too aggressive and scare her off but I want her to know I like her and I want her to like me back.