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Guys, Do all guys find an important conversation about the future to be boring or is he being an ass?

Okay so I was trying to talk to my boyfriend about our future to see if we wanted the same thing. Granted he told me he was tired and wanted to have this conversation in the morning but his family is coming and I wanted...

Booklover9616

Xper 5 Age: 30

Okay so I was trying to talk to my boyfriend about our future to see if we wanted the same thing. Granted he told me he was tired and wanted to have this conversation in the morning

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My Reasons For Being Vegan

People seem to be very defensive when it comes to diet, so I just wanted to write a little disclaimer saying that I'm not here telling you how to eat, I'm not telling you you're an unethical person, I'm merely providing...

Kiwedin

Yoda Age: 31

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Family & Friends

Am I the one being wrong in this argument?

Sorry in advance! This may be long! Basically I'm Asian and my culture is so traditional that I sometimes feel suffocated since I'm living in a Western country so everything I want to do with my friends clashes with my...

SomeRandGirl

Xper 4 Age: 26

Relationships

My "boyfriend" feels we are anything but friends?

i been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. he appoched me first and really wanted to be with me. he takes me out to eat, movies, go out of town together, hang out, we kiss, hold hangs, spend the night at his place and etc....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend has ended our relationship as she says there is too much going on in her life and she needs to deal with these things first?

I started dating an amazing girl nearly a year ago and at the time, she had been separated from her husband for just over a year. Things quickly progressed for us and within a few months we had become girlfriend/...

Cammy_uk

Xper 4 Age: 40

Relationships

4 month relationship, had some ups and downs... I was too needy, is it too late to fix it?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Ladies.. And I'm mostly interseted in the ladies take on this, but I'll also listen to men.. Briefly, I'm 46 and in decent shape, just getting out of a marriage of 18 years and not

Ladies.. And I'm mostly interseted in the ladies take on this, but I'll also listen to men..

Briefly, I'm 46 and in decent shape, just getting out of a marriage of 18 years and not emotionally tied up with my ex-wife.. I met a girl who was 32 about 5 months ago, and we started out as friends "Friendzone" and after a few failed attempts I finally broke out of the friendzone (after we actually decided not to see each other anymore, she called me a week later and asked me to come get her)..

Anyway, we dated and she told me she was ok with "Friends with benefits" and didn't really want to call us "boyfriend and girlfriend" or in a relationship... After about 2 months of amazing times and sex, I fell for her.. I began to be needy.. I admit it, and she also told me I was being too needy (mainly in that I always wanted sex, and she would sometimes, especially when she was PMS, not want it at all).. moreover, I got a bit jealous of some of her "guy friends" and in a nutshell, made a few mistakes.. we were up and down for a month or so then about two weeks ago, her sister let her parents know about us, and her parents who are both minsters in a church, pressured her to not have sex with me.. so she told me, "I just want to be friends, no sex".. I told her I don't know if I can handle that, but after about 2-3 days I texted her and said, I'd be ok with being friends... my heart tells me otherwise by the way.. I'm not madly in love, but I am a bit infatuated, and part of me feels like this girl is way younger, and very attaractive and I don't feel I'm going to be able to land one like her again so easily.. plus, as a bonus, in bed we were a perfect fit, down to our prevesions!

So my question is this... Shall I remain friends with her? and try to again get out of the friends zone.. and this time be LESS needy.. give her more space, don't get upset if she talks to other guys, etc? Or shall I just tell her "I can't be just friends, call me if you change your mind, otherwise nice knowing you"

Even her sister told me I was being too needy, and a bit of a doormat.. I was always available for her, and broke a lot of the "rules" of being hard to get, mysterious, etc..

What to do?

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Break Up & Divorce

What do you think of a boyfriend who does this?

We recently broke up, partly due to personality conflicts, and him not wanting to take responsibility for his part. When we had a two week break (he wanted space), he told me after the fact that he had met with his ex for...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

My boyfriend is sweet and affectionate one week and cold and distant the next. What does this mean?

My boyfriend has been very "hot and cold" the last couple of months. Some weeks he's sweet, some weeks he's cold. So the last few of weeks he's been wonderful. Treating me right, being more playful and affectionate,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How do I tell my step mother in no uncertain terms to stop criticizing my decisions?

She criticized me and lectured me for a long time the other day just for buying m&ms with the money I Made from working. then a couple of months ago I wanted to go back to school to become a pharmacy technician, i was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Girls, was I asking for too much as a boyfriend?

My girlfriend and I (both late 20s) had a fight this past weekend. She told me a few months back that she gets distant and weird around a time of the year (death anniversary of family member). I brought up that we haven't...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Heart broken & confused - what do I do?

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I thought I was head over heals until I started crushing on a co worker. This guy also has a girlfriend that he's been with for 3 years.. We went to a work party and just had a...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Why is he dragging his heals on buying a house together?

My boyfriend and I have known each other forever and we have a 3 month old together, which we had talked about and planned. After she was born life took a turn for the worse in ways we couldn't have planned for, he quit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend and I have known each other forever and we have a 3 month old together, which we had talked about and planned. After she was born life took a turn for the worse in ways we

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Am I reading too much into this?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We were butting heads, basically things started out pretty fast, so he wanted to have some space for a while to figure things out, and if this is what he really...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Guys, My boyfriend recently was admitted to the hospital, he is still there for observation but I can't see him due to?

Cutlural issues, religious issues, etc. Since he is in the hospital he told me that he wanted space, I figured it was due to the mediciation and wanted rest and what not - But I later discovered he is texting others,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

I told my ex-fwb's girlfriend things he told me in confidence to get back at him... because he's an armhole who forwards nudes. Was I wrong?

We had a connection I had never experienced before. We started off as friends with benefits but once we stopped having sex we still had this space where we could talk about anything. We would talk about people we met on...

meetandgreet

Xper 5 Age: 32

We had a connection I had never experienced before. We started off as friends with benefits but once we stopped having sex we still had this space where we could talk about anything.

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What Guys Look For In Women

Hey everyone! Okay so I wanted to do something that guys can relate too. These are things that guys look for in women. These things can also be what women look for in their guy. 1. Be Funny Honestly if you’re always...

Anonymous

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Dating

Why is my ex being so hot and cold?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in April because we were spending too much time together and it was affecting our grades (we're both juniors in college). He would drunk text me sometimes during the summer but we both...

Abigail176

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

Anyone else finding it hard out there alone?

I just finally found another job after losing my job in July. I was let go due to restructuring in my company. Before I was let go, I was in the process of possibly buying a home. I was living with roommates and that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Dudes - why are you so confusing?

Basically - my boyfriend and I got into an argument this evening about a little miscommunication. He seemed to assume that we were definitely going to meet up/do something tonight, and while I am of course down with that,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend broke up wth me yesterday deleted everything off facebook of us and joined tinder the same day! Why is he being like this?

I can't believe this has happened, it was all so sudden. My then boyfriend and me had been together 2 years, we were planning our future together to move away together and everything. We had had our ups and downs but he...

pandah

Xper 6 Age: 38