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So my marriage is shit, my wife is verbally abusive and I've finally had enough. I'm crazy about this girl at work and I finally got the guys to say something to her. I knew I had slim to zero chances, but she is seriously my dream girl and really needed to try. I opened up and told her everything, all the things I love about her (voice, hair...) and how beautiful she is and how she makes me feel so amazing just by being nice. The only thing is, she doesn't have feelings for me, only as a coworker she said. All this was said over text too. We had a lunch break at the same time so I asked if she wanted to hang out and talk, but she said she had midterms work to do and asked me what i wanted to talk about. I didn't want to text it but was worried I'd never get another chance and probably ended up oversharing. Now I don't know what to do next. I'm worried I shared too much and creeped her out. Or maybe it's the age difference or maybe its she just doesn't find me attractive, I don't know. She's barely acknowledged me the last two days at work. I'm trying to just back off, I don't want to make things any worse or seem even more like a creeper than I might already. But I'm just not ready to throw in the towel yet. I still can't stop thinking about her. She is seriously my dream girl. I've never been so sure of something, I've never felt this way, not even with my wife, who I'm more convinced then ever I married for comfort and because I was scared rather than love. So I guess what I'm wondering is what other girls would think in a situation like this? Would you want space? Or would you want to be wooed? Like I'm ready to go to her house and blast Peter Gabriel from my boombox to show her how much she means to me but I don't want to scare her or make her more uncomfortable or like she's wrong for not liking me. Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated!

The way she is towards me hasn’t changed. I just thought about it more now that I’ve developed a crush on her.

reasons I thought she liked me
- she was always next to or near me in groups
- she’s more likely to go to something if I go
- she can spend an entire day mostly talking to me even if we’re in a large group of friends
- I felt like she liked me
- mutual friends think she likes me
- she generally talks to me in groups and tries to get my attention if I’m not paying attention especially if I’m talking to other girls.
- if we go to order drinks at the bar at a group gathering, she’ll wait for me rather than going straight back to the group.

reasons I now don’t think she likes me after I thought about it
- she hasn’t touched me or flirted with me. Most we ever do is make prolonged eye contact and even that she’ll sometimes look away or just blush.
- she has in the past distanced herself from me in groups by sitting further away from me and talking to me from a distance within the group.
- she blushes if others say something like “oh thanks for coming to the party and you even brought her along”.
- she’ll sometimes walk faster if we’re walking together.
- she doesn’t show the typical signs of romantic interest. She obviously enjoys being around me but probably in a close platonic way.