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Me and my friend have just been having some issues with guys. When she had a boyfriend, all was good and well. Recently I got into my own relationship, and my friend well, she kinda hates my boyfriend. Her boyfriend isn't the biggest fan of mine either. See it's kinda like me and my boyfriend are the little misfits who happened to find each other. Like neither of us have ever had very good home lives, and so to cope sometimes we drink a little, and a lot of times we smoke pot. So they both see him as a bad influence. Which I guess is fair enough, but also I'd be drinking anyway. I just wouldn't smoke because he won't tell me where he gets his from.
What makes me mad though is that my "friend" is one of those people who have never really had a bad life. She's grown up in a nice house with both her parents, her dad has his own business, and she's going to a university for a useless degree and taking useless extra classes. Her boyfriend is a marine, also in college. Neither me or my boyfriend are in college. My friend is constantly calling my boyfriend stupid, and other just mean things. But it's like, I do the same stuff he does. So I guess I am too. That said, MINE, treats me well, and I can actually talk to him about deep personal stuff without feeling weird about it. Meanwhile my friend doesn't feel open to tell her boyfriend anything. And I can't really talk to her about anything either without feeling judged, or she acts like she doesn't care and doesn't wanna listen. Then her own boyfriend is over there getting naked pictures from other girls, yet mine is still the bad one.

So I haven't spoken to my friend in a few days. Would you guys and girls ever choose your so over your friends?

Every single guy I meet turns out bad from online dating.
I have low self esteem but I try to work with it.

1st guy dumped me. Smoked too much/ drinked.
2nd guy dumped me twice. Had issues with alcohol, semi cheated on me, talked to too many girls, smoked too much.

I took a 4 month break.

3rd guy stood me up twice. Worked at a nice company liked similar things I liked. He seemed nice but never sent me pics of himself. Always asked for mine.
4th guy dumped me because he said he doesn't like girls that like glasses. Also works at a very nice company as well. He always wanted pictures of me as well but never sent them of himself.

I'm very open minded and I'm not picky on looks.
Any guy that messages me and starts a conversation I talk to.
They end up talking to me for a bit but then they leave or they don't message back. I'm not understanding what I'm doing wrong.
I try talking to different guys... I text flirty like.
Is it because I settle to early? I try to have them take the lead as well but it just doesn't work. I didn't choose these guys based on their qualities... they show up later the more we talk. They hide them before I even say no to those kind of things.