There's nothing wrong with being nerdy; I'm /very/ nerdy, on the inside, when I feel really comfortable around someone. And I'm that one kid at the party who doesn't drink and gets an ill stomach by cigarette smoke.
On the outside, I'm a brown girl growing out a shaved head, is athletic (I run, dance, and used to kickbox) and dresses in simple, but flattering clothes (most of my clothes are black, cream, white and sky blue; I usually wear high rise jeggings with a fitting turtleneck and navy Dr. Martens oxfords). I'm polite to everyone, but may be seen as very serious by some, and I'm very smart.
But looking back, I've noticed that the guys who were interested in me (or at least really, really seemed to be) were really nerdy guys, to the point that it seems like a movie (lanky, glasses, scarily intelligent, etc). Some were cool, some were creepy (like any other guy could be), I've dated none, never been asked out/I just don't think much about dating.
But what could it be that attracts these nerdy guys? What do they like? I don't get it.
And it changed in college, but in high school there was the same thing, only the jocks were rude to me (this was before I shaved my head, I did that in college). Now, the "jock" guys either say nothing to me or are respectful (but not super-duper friendly)
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Perhaps they see themselves in you.. i dunno haha
I've been attracted to nerdy girls, butch girls, and even girly girls but they all had some significant parental issues (daddy/mommy issues), but i doubt that's a major force in that matter. Probably the same case here.
Don't think about it too much and only date the people you find interesting and attractive2