I slept with my good guy friend, and I ended up catching feelings for him, does he likes me or is he pretending that he doesn't?

[Lawelly]

1 year ago my cousin Best Friend, told her to put him on me. So she introduced us. she told he has a kid, that was a turn off so I never paid him no mind. We used to hang out in group, drink, smoke it was fun. We became good friends. this year I invited him to come over my apartment and chill and we end up having sex. he gave me a head and a guy never gave me a head before. It was good. But drunk me told him not to catch feelings for me. And he liked the idea. I liked someone else at the time. He only gave head to 5 girls me being the 5th. He only kissed 3 girls that were his 3 girlfriends, and he does not like kissing but yet he allowed me to kiss him whenever I wanted to. He was the first guy I took shower with. And we were good friends so we had good connection, I would catch him calling baby over text. He never goes a day without seeing my snaps. Things got intese we start sleeping over each other's house back to Back. we had sex watch movies talk, plan trips together. And talk about personal things about each other. he knows me for 1 year So he knew that I was circled by a lot of guys. And I go out a lot like almost everyday. All my friends are male and I get smoked up by slot of guys. And thats where our issue comes in. When I told him I might have started to catch feelings for him he's like oh how could you allow this to happen we were just friends. And you told me in the begginning you'd not catch feelings. But he said that I was beautiful and had a beautiful personality and that I'm smart but that I'm not his type of girl that I'm not girlfriend material that I go out a lot , that I have way to many guy friends and that I use men and he did not like that. I got upset and left his house. So he called me right away asking if I was ok and he was worried. But now he wants to remain friends with me he refuses to lose my friendship. I refuse to believe that I guy that has no feelings for you would not stay in the phone with you for day until 6 in the morning.

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I just turned 20 like 1 month ago and he's 25 and will be 26 next month. He's looking for something serious and he thinks I'm a party girl, a someone who would never commit but I really want to show in different

[joelove45678]

Sounds like he's afraid to get hurt he prob has feelings but thinking you're a part girl who might hurt him. If he has a kid then it only makes it worse he's thinking about the kid to I'd say date someone else to prove that you can be more then that but also it helps you, you deserve to be with someone who wants you for who you are.

[LonelyWander]

Yeah it sounds like he does have feelings for you. He probably just doesn't want to accept that himself yet. Some guys are afraid of commitment. If you still have feelings for him just take it slow and see where you end up. But dont be afraid to let it go and move on with your life. I did that at it almost always ends poorly.

[Lawelly]

Omg but he does not want to stop being friends with me he refuses to let that happen and he said that he does. It believe I like him cause I like someone before him but he made me forget that person so he thinks he's only my rebound and refuses to believe I like and refuse to let me go as a friend so it's very complicated still

[LonelyWander]

If I'm understanding the situation you might need to just cut him off and stop communicating with him. That's way you can move on with your life. Best of luck to you. Sorry I can't be of more help to you

[SammyGurl]

Sounds like he has feelings for you, he may be confused as how he should follow through.

[SammyGurl]

Thank You!!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you two are a great match, things in common, things that are different which is normal, you two should date.
I thought what you wrote was a cute Love story. You should give it a go. Be patient with each other and trust each other. You both seem to actually Like each other and be interested in spending time with each other.

He likes you and it seems you like him yes?

[matheus_mb]

I don't think he has feelings, if he had I don't think he would've done what he did.

[Lawelly]

What do you means

[matheus_mb]

If he had feelings he probably would've liked what you said and instead he had "how could you allow this to happen"

[ADFSDF1996]

If you aren't a "party girl", you have to prove to him that you aren't what he thinks you are.

[NajemEddine]

he have feelings but he won't choose you to be is girlfriend / wife...