My guy friend has been cuddling me lately. Could he have feelings for me?

[bluesylk]

i have a boyfriend which my male friend knows and really likes. lately when we've been hanging out, he pulls me in cuddles and is constantly stroking my thighs, my arms, and my neck as well. he tells me all the time how soft my skin is and how good i smell (like he says it every 15-30 minutes). he also usually intertwines our hands when we're cuddling. i sometimes get out of the cuddle to drink something or to get in a more comfortable position, then he always signals me to come back in his arms.

we've always been pretty "touchy" in some way. like years ago when we were still in school, we walked around school, (rarely) holding hands and he pulled me in his arms on the bus. but it never went this far.

could this just be him feeling comfortable around me (as we were talking a lot about personal stuff lately) or might there be more to the situation?

[_Maya_]

Certainly sounds like he wants more. The question is more of what? It could be he wants more than a friendship as in a serious relationship or it could be he wants in your pants and he is testing the waters to see how far he can take it. I guess you just really need to sit down and talk to him. Just remember that if this is aa good friend you risk losing that friendship once you enter into a relationship. Couples fight and things happen. You need to be prepared to lose that friendship forever if you get romantically involved with him.

[spartan55]

Uh... why are you asking about this when you have a boyfriend? Remember him? And why aren't you shutting down all that touchy feely shit from your Groper friend? Does your boyfriend know about all that?

[Notherndude84]

I think he’s sexually attracted to you

[bluesylk]

i kind of think too, but i don't (or perhaps i don't want) to believe that he's the type of guy that tries moves on a girl in a relationship.

[Notherndude84]

If he’s doing that he wants sex, you should set a boundary before something happens

[boobliker]

yes I would say he has

[In_Trance]

Is his weiner hard?

[bluesylk]

i didn't plan on taking attention to it. but i haven't noticed anything i guess

[In_Trance]

What does that even mean