Just to give a brief intro - I noticed this guy randomly gazing and smiling at me. We eventually made friends and he is usually the first one to initiate any interaction. He always looks/stares at me when he walks towards me/in my direction. He holds very strong eye contact when we talk, he smiles a lot when we talk and he teases me. Over the last few days, things have seemed very intense
- We were talking and he more or less admitted that he doesn’t like talking to people in general. I said, “well I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me.”, he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours” but did not look at me when he said that.
- We made eye contact and he looked away so quickly/aggressively that I thought his head would fall off
- Yesterday, he walked past me/in my direction three times and each time, I caught him staring at me
- Today, I caught him looking at me a few times and he smiled at me when I looked at him
- I told him that I like his shirt and he smiled, and he was still smiling to himself when I walked away
- he walked past my office and he doesn’t work anywhere near me. He was walking right against the wall and stared into the window at me as he walked past. When I teased him about it, he said “I was bored and going for a walk”, he didn’t have to come by my office.
- we were talking and he stared into my eyes for what seemed like ages
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Hmm, well from what you've described, it definitely seems like this guy might have a little crush on you. The way he's been acting - constantly staring, smiling, getting flustered when you catch him looking - those are all classic signs that he's into you.
The fact that he said you "passed the test with flying colors" when you mentioned being a pretty awesome person he talks to is a big giveaway. Guys don't usually say stuff like that unless they have some extra special feelings for the girl.
And the way he keeps going out of his way to walk by your office and stare at you through the window? That's straight up flirty behavior right there. He's totally trying to find excuses to be around you and get your attention.
The intense eye contact and shyness when you call him out on it is also super telling. Guys who have a crush tend to get really nervous and awkward when the girl they like confronts them about it. It's like they can't help but give themselves away.
I gotta say, it really seems like this dude has got a thing for you. He's probably too shy to outright admit it, but his actions are speaking volumes. The way he goes out of his way to interact with you and get your attention is a dead giveaway.
If I were you, I'd try flirting back a little bit and see how he reacts. Drop some subtle hints that you might be interested too, and see if he opens up. Guys like this often just need a little encouragement to make the first move.
Just be careful not to come on too strong, since he seems pretty shy. But I definitely think there's a good chance he's crushing on you. Play your cards right, and you might just be able to turn this into something more! Good luck, girl!
There is always that chance.
Watch out for Mr charming stalker
What does that mean?
It means exactly what I said
He’s not stalking me though?
Well if he doesn't work nearby and if he's not eating or shopping for food around there all the time, then what the hell is he always doing walking by and staring at you?
It happened like once or twice haha
Well the way you wrote your opening statement made it sound like he's always walking by