Do you think this guy may have feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

We met in a teen camp a week ago, he (29M) was a manager, and I (23F) was a group leader. He's detached, you would instantly notice it, and people describe him as introverted and quiet. I found him staring at me from a distance from first days though, then he told me I looked much younger than my age. When I'm around he pays attention, and asks questions to me, smiles. When I ask someone for help, he comes to help me first. I also felt sick one day and asked me: "did you have pills? How do you feel now?" And when we play games with a group, he tries to engage with talks with me, asks opinions from me, my takes on a game and what to do next. Basically, he pays attention to me more than others and listens to me. He challenges me intellectually, wants to have a deep conversation about psychology and once asked 'you talk so well about your friend. Are you in love with him?" And also wanted to show me his book, and interests he has, that he likes psychology and philosophy when I told him that i"m a psychologist.

Yesterday we were in a same group of friends, during the night. We were there whole night playing games, and the next day drinking together as well. He was sitting next to me all night. One time he was debating with me as part of a game, and people asked him 'why do argue with her so much, do you hate her? ' jokingly, and he said " it's for a game, in real like it's opposite, i like her a lot". There were friends. But I'm wondering if it was just a friendly remark... He's still aloof and does not directly express romantic or sexual signs of attraction, if we don't count that he pays lots of personal attention in what I have to say, my health, helps me out and acts like a gentleman and shares about himself/asks about me and shows respect and fascination. I'm extremely attracted to his voice and his pupils once were dilated. He stares at me often with a smile when in a conversation or from afar, but he kind of seems passive. Do you think he's attracted to me?

[DenizLikesTennis]

You need to make a move because he seems a shy person when it comes to this. Don't miss him. He likes you so so so much, I can't tell. Definetely attracted. I hope you do the same and I see that you do. Congratulations! 🤗 you should go on a date with him but ask it privately. So you avoid jealous people and keep yourself out of trouble.

Please let us know how it went and update this question. I feel like this could be a great and touching romantic story. I love reading such stories😍.

Anyways, I wish you a great upcoming weekend and good luck with him🍀😊

[DOGU8585]

your meeting style, ı mean camp, mhmm ı loved the idea, like a fable or fairytale, , not ordinary meetings, and yes he may have that kind of feelings, and how about your exact feeling?

[Asker]

He makes me giddy and relaxed, I feel he's interested in me and his behaviour makes me feel like he's attracted to me, but is still keeping his distance. So I don't know how to act.

[Asker]

I feel like there is chemistry and a thickness of air when we're close, so it makes me feel confused and I don't know if we're quite on a same level, i also feel like he indirectly asking about if i love someone, and he saying in a group of friends that he likes me personally, are the biggest signs of him tasting waters?

[DOGU8585]

I think he is serious, ı know the guys, we are not very complicated creatures and yes probably you are not an ordinary girl for him, even if he keeps his distance for now, otherwise he wouldn't have acted like that in a group of people or treated you like that or interested with if you have lover or love anyone else, you also as it seems smelled and felt the chemistry between you and him, just do not give up, it would be serious date soon

[spartan55]

"his pupils dilated once"
... 😂... you've been reading too much Cosmo

[Anonymous]

It definitely sounds like it. But take things slow and see how it goes.

[moviedude714]

Well do you find yourself attracted to him?