I think that I'm loosing feelings?

[Anonymous]

I'm really concerned with one of my crushes (whom everyone, and sometimes him deems my boyfriend). I just don't really know if he likes me anymore, and genuinely I don't know either.

Plus.. sometimes my friends can be quite cruel and they make fun of both the guys I like, saying their ugly and one of them looks like Thomas the Train. I'm not looking for their approval, I just want them to at least understand I like them. Mind y'all, my friends never talk to either of my crushes that often.

I'm catching feelings for my old crush again, and I just always get butterflies with him. I don't want to just forget my crush, because he still actually may like me and just doesn't know how to express it, and I still like him in some way.

I'm really torn, between liking him and my old crush. I'm not really looking for relationships or anything, but just I don't know with my feelings.

[HawkPerception]

You're going through the same path that almost every modern day girl seems to go through until much later in their life. You're passed the honeymoon phase... the phase where everything seems amazing and there was more effort on both sides of the relationship because everything was fresh and you were getting to know each other. Now you're falling into the comfort zone, where there's much less effort being put into the relationship and things seem more boring because you're not doing as much together. It's a phase that almost every couple goes through. Either you can try to communicate with your partner and try to reignite things or you can give up and move on. But if you choose the give up and move on path, then expect that none of your relationships will work long term, because you will get to that same point in every one of them.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Than do hookup with your crush...
Problem solved.

[Danny_dan92]

If you are, then cut ties. Simple

[In_Trance]

You need to stop thinking and start doing