Its hard to say exactly what he's feeling because I'm not him but I'll take a shot...
I really doubt that things are over. If you guys break up because of one little fight like this than the relationship was not very strong in the first place (and I would imagine that after a year you guys have been through stuff way more serious than this).
It sounds to be that he's taking advantage of you being wrong. Depending on what you're relationship is like, he may feel like he's usually the one who does stuff that upsets you. Now that the rolls are reversed, he's blowing it out of proportion to prove to you that you too can mess up.
I'm not saying this is how every girl is. But from my experience, girls are often more sensitive and emotional about things. So in relationships, they are the ones who get upset easier about things the guy does rather than the other way around. If that makes sense..
He knows you guys are close and he knows you're crazy about him so he's not afraid of losing you because he knows its not going to happen. But if it did I'm sure he'd be crushed.
What he's doing right now is pretty lame, he's playing mind games and pretending to be upset more than he really is.
Again this is all just what I think of the situation. I could very well be wrong. But my advice is to just give him space and wait it out. The more you show that you're sorry the more he'll bask in it. You apologized sincerely multiple times so you've done your part. It's his turn to forgive and move on
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You are suffocating him. Give him space. When things go on with guys, most of the time they will retreat to have time to think about the situation and come back to you when they are ready. I'm not saying wait forever in a day for him because you have a life to live too.
I know it's going to be hard, but don't take to him, leave him alone for a week. He'll talk when he's ready. You didn't need to write that letter because you already apologized beforehand. If he knew that you were stressed and going through stuff and just said that because you were frustrated, well honestly it shouldn't be a big deal to him. We sometimes forget that guys have feelings too.
I know it's easier said than done, but stop crying and hold your head up. You've been together for awhile and he'll come back.
Hope I helped! =)
Don't say things like, "just find someone better" that's lame. Have some confidence! :) Everyone gets into bad moods. Just explain to your boyfriend you were in a mood and how you appreciate him in your life
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