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Search Results: first thing to notice
What is one of the most interesting proposition you've ever been offered?
I had a holiday helper job from a week before Thanksgiving until New Years day once. A temporary job to earn cash for school. At first they had me moving all over but then stuck me in the deli to make sandwiches and party...
Something I noticed about my anxiety?
It's weird it seem like the physical form of anxiety usually takes place as tingling anymore. Like that side thing from a while a back. I'm sure something irrtated my side or something started to make me worry about it....
Anonymous
(36-45) What I notice in every Happy and Successful God Believer
I’m not here to talk about people who have only the image of success: those with millions but are being abused or cheated on, or suffering drug addictions and suicidal thoughts, or having serious mental issues that make...
Is this guy just wasting my time?
A guy at my uni had been watching me for weeks but never approached nor tried to speak. Would just blatantly stare each time he saw me. After weeks, I finally approached him and we talked and he gave me his phone number....
Anonymous
(36-45) Real Talk: Autism
I was born in April, Autism Awareness Month, and as irony would have it, I was born with autism, myself. To strangers, it was more evident in my earliest years and just out of sight for my parents, altogether. People...
BlackTealLazer
Xper 5 Age: 23 I really just need help with this situation, if someone would like to share their thoughts it would be really appreciated, thank you.. ?
I took a break from a guy who wasn’t putting in the effort to talk with me anymore and let me know I was special to him. He’s going through a hard time with his family but he made time to drink with his friends but not...
Violeteyes21
Xper 2 Age: 26 Girls, is my ex-girlfriend trying to send me "messages" to talk to her again?
Hi, so it's been almost 4 months since my ex girlfriend broke up with me. I'm 29M she's 35. And I've noticed certain behavior that has me thinking about her a lot lately. Some of this things I've noticed and other...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to cope with feeling left out all the time?
So I’m no stranger to being left out. It is what it is. But a few weeks ago it started to be really noticeable. It started with my cousins birthday party. I don’t have a car so I texted the group chat asking to carpool. I...
5000pts
Xper 6 Age: 28 Long Distance Gone Wrong?
I recently broke off an ldr I didn't feel was progressing. We dated for 1.5 years. I loved her and she loved me. Everything was great and I was close to proposing as that was where we were leading. Early on she had...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do I let my boyfriend know I'm not sure I want to be together, or do I make a decision first?
Lately, I've been questioning if my boyfriend is really the one or not. He doesn't give me much of his time nor communication; we see each other usually once a week, but usually it's a short amount of time. We're both...
Anonymous
(25-29) I'm nice to him. Why does he treat me the worst?
Ever since I started dating/had kids with my kids daddy, i have noticed him treating me worse than his first baby's mother. He told me that she didn't have to work while she was pregnant, he fed her everyday before AND...
beautyperfection
Xper 4 Age: 33 Is wandering eyes on a first date a red flag?
Went out with a girl tonight, had a good time, I noticed a lot during dinner she’d be checking out other men behind me or just peep around, I never said any thing or mentioned any thing, but I didn’t really like it. I...
DavidBibs
Xper 4 Age: 39 The difficult first love of a teenager :) Just a basic vent where I let out my emotions. Thanks for listening/reading.
There is this guy that I really like, but he has a lot of strugles and things going on in his life. He flirts with a lot of different girls, but that's like his personality. I have been talking with him for 9 months and...
LaureenVO
Xper 7 Age: 21 Is he just being nice?
We are both student athletes and we workout together about 1-2 times a week. I met him at the gym and later on I learned that he and another friend of mine are on the same team. He's really nice and offers me support...
oceanblue24
Xper 2 Age: 30 
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Xper 6 Age: 31 How much does being a reserved female really affect your dating life?
I’m going to be 27 in two weeks and I’ve never had success in dating. I don’t have a way to meet guys in person so I’ve only used dating apps. I wasn’t liking my pick of the litter from guys that messaged me first on the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he a just staring?
I dont know when he noticed me but he the first time I saw him looking at me was in mid September. I have seen this guy before but our uni had masks policy so I always wore one when I saw him twice. He didn't wear it so...
Anonymous
(36-45) Been encountering this girl and have a thing for her but not sure whats going on here?
we both live in the same area , small city you could say. i had meet her once at a bar downtown a couple years ago but hadn't really seen much of her since. but lately during the last 2 months i've encountered her...
Anonymous
(36-45) A Glimpse Behind the Scenes at Funeral Home Challenges. It's Not Always Funerial.
We are here to serve families in time of need. One thing about the funeral home business: we have to get it right the first time. It’s not like a restaurant where we can comp you your dessert to make up for overcooking...
u SaoirseS
Master Age: 28 I'm Not Physically Attracted to Him, But I Have Some Feelings For My Friend. Could It Be a Phase or True Feelings?
I'm 21 years old, and I'm a Junior in College. Most of you know what I look like, while most of you might not. I will include a recent picture of myself image the end of this MyTake. On campus, my co workers and friends...
MelaninQueen21
Xper 5 Age: 26 