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So there's this guy who's a senior and I'm a junior and we started talking over the summer and then things got a little awkward and he just got out of a serious relationship and wasn't looking for a gf and he didn't want to get hurt but we knew there was some sexual tension between each other and that we really liked each other so we sorta became friends with benefits we didn't get around to having sex but we talked about it a lot and was set on doing it and he's not a virgin but I am so he said how he wanted to be my first time so I guess that is also why I can't move on because I was dead set on him being my first and I know he wouldn't go back to that again but anyway everything then things came up and we stopped but we totally stayed friends I mean he's not as into conversation as before but we still talk occasionally and we still care about each other i mean we talk but no where like we use to which was everyday. I was basically his girl and that's what he would tell me and we even would say we loved each other but ever since we stopped its been a little awkward and I guess I fell a little too much for a friends with benefits situation and its kinda hard seeing him with another girl.. walking to class... driving home with. How do I get comfortable with all of this and get rid of these feelings? And should I tell him what I'm feeling?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and I really do like him, but there's a good amount of little things that bother me. I don't like people for their looks so it's not about that. He dances a lot and it kinda embarrasses me, and he likes it so I don't say anything to hurt his feelings. He also talks nonstop about stuff I don't care about and then says "oh nobody gets my reference", and usually we all get the reference. He also makes music that's a mix of ghetto and dubstep, don't like it. I don't say anything because that's part of who he is as a person, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. My dad hates him, but not because of his personality, but because he's black. He's from Detroit and lives here in Alabama, we go to school together. We're in high school. We've dated a couple times before, the first time was in May of 2014. He's been hinting at sex (I'm a virgin, he's had sex once years ago), and it's kinda scary to me. I've said no, but now I'm considering having sex with him. He recently sent me 2 dick pics, and he's really big (length and width), which kinda scares me. He's also really hairy, and I hate that. If he was stubbly then I'd be fine. Again, I don't want to say anything, cause it's kinda rude and embarrassing. I asked him if he wanted anything in return and he said, "sure why not" which made me feel bad. So I asked what he wanted and said anything so I sent a picture of my boobs and he said "majestic" mfw. I don't know why, but after he sent the picture, I got ridiculously sad and started crying. I don't know. I'm sorry for this long paragraph, but it's necessary.

i told my boyfriend when we first started dating I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. He said he could wait. we're both 20, im a virgin and he is not. I had never even kissed anyone before him. Anyways we've been dating 5 or 6 months now and he is kind of pressuring me into having sex with him, it was more gradual at first, now he acts like its like super important to him, like he needs to have sex or we won't work. I asked him if he lied to me when we first started dating. He said he wasn't lying but he thought I would have like changed my mind by now or something...

If you love the girl will you wait?