Sweetheart, I know how you feel. I went through this entire scenario in my head literally last week (about a guy that I was flirting with but then he ended up being creepy.)
I think you should try talking to him. You NEED to not care what he says when you tell him you are not ready to have sex with him. If he disrespects that, you need to break up with him then and there. Don't let him force you into something like that.. And by the way, he's probably a virgin and is only saying that to make himself look sexy or something.
Although I do appreciate his choice in music (moombahton and trap ftw! Haha), if you don't like it, try opening him up to other kinds of music. Chances are, he'll enjoy other things too. The dancing aspect I think would be the easiest talk to have with him. While he doesn't have to completely stop, maybe he can chill out a little bit.
And please please tell me you didn't send him nudes because you felt pressured. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do and he needs to back the fuck up if he thinks it's okay to pressure you into doing that. If you cried, you probably are feeling more pain than love.
It's your choice on whether you dump him or stay, but while little things can be fixed, he sounds like a thirsty fuckboy when it comes to sex. Be careful about it, and if you want to Kik me if he tries to force you into something, I'll give you my Kik. Idc if it's three in the morning, if you need to vent about something he did, I'll listen.
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Sounds like a break up is necessary. It's only been 4 months and there's nothing you really like about him. Don't send him pics of yourself, that's probably the worst thing to do, internet is a wonderful yet horrible place at the same time.
Sounds like you aren't happy. Being in a relationship you're supposed to be happy.
The way you described him it honestly sounded like you didn't love him and if you rush into sex with someone you don't love then you will only regret it later. Spontaneously crying about the relationship might be your feelings telling you they isn't want you want.
Yeah break up with him.
You two aren't right for each other at all.
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You should break up. The two of you aren't compatible and you don't seem ready for a relationship
He dances a lot and it kind of embarrasses you?
Yes break up.
Yes you should.
Leave that bastard...
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