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People often say that people pair up with those that are like minded, and that the good girl pairs up with the good guy and party girl with party guy etc. However, this is an ideal concept and the world is anything but ideal. The reality is that people don't often pair up with those of like minded. And in the case of women being good or bad really doesn't hold much weight when it comes to their attraction towards men. What takes paramount is looks, money and status.

So your a good man. However, you are born average looks and you don't have high social status or wealth. Overall around your time in your early -mid 20's you won't get a good woman to look at you. The reason is because the good woman would be chased by and/or pursue after better looking men, rich men and/or more popular men than you for relationships and looks (hypergamy).
So as a good man your left out with a choice of continuing the course with a lack of love or switching from going after decent women for girlfriends and target lower quality women.

So should good men who are having a hard time getting the good, woman and switch to lower quality women for love?

Example:
Rather than going for a girl who is nice, decent, doesn't sleep around and come from a good family with morals and values maybe start being more open to date a girl who is a stripper and has loose morals and values on things. Tends to be very sexually open also.

What you guys think?

An alpha widow is a woman who was partnered with an alpha male in the past. The alpha widow usually with a guy who meets all the requirements she ever wanted in her mate and essentially is her dream man. However, for whatever reason things didn't turn out right and they broke up.
This usually matches her ideal in physical looks, gave her the best sex of her life, and had the social status, personality, and wealth she wanted in a partner.
Would you be willing to date an alpha widow?

So i hear on gag and in real life that if a guy doesn't check off all the things on her checklist. Most girls would rather be single for life than be in a relationship.
So for example a woman with their height requirement meets a great guy but he's below 6'0. Next. She would rather stay single than date him. You check off all the things on her list but you happen to be black and she only wants white guys. Next. You make less than her but checkoff everything on her list. Next. You have hazel eyes but she likes guys with blue eyes. Next. You got acne scars on your face but checkoff everything else on her list.

And basically they continue like this until all their eggs are gone then a lot of them turn into crazy cat ladies.

In the Western Countries such as America over 65% of the female population is either overweight or obese. And therefore standards for fitness are dropping with people calling clearly obese women curvy or thick when they are really just fat.


Men are naturally attracted to women who are thin so that means many men would have to settle for women they aren't their ideal. And it also creates a warped view on dating market. Just for being skinny, a girl can potentially shoot her way up on the desirable scale because competition are fat/overweight.

On the flip side women still want to keep their standards of wanting tall men, who are good looking, and make more than them. And many of them will reject a guy for not meeting her standards.

Even with that. Thanks to feminism and destruction of gender roles women have lost their femininity and behave more like men than ever in history. Feminism encourage that women try to one up and be combative against men rather than be supportive and many women take great pride in challenging men at every turn.

We then go onto other aspects many girls drink heavily and party a lot in their 20's and don't even want to pick up skills that men desire such as learning how to cook and clean. In fact many men with girlfriend have commented that they now have to pick up after their girlfriend and usually order food/cook for themselves.

Another reason for the obesity epidemic is birth control. Birth control causes you to put on fat and many women are just as promiscuous as men (if not more) today and are on it.


So with that being said women today basically act like men and it's as if men are basically chasing to be in relationship with another guy.

Even with all this men still have to:
1. Approach (women rarely do this)
2. Break the ice, get her number or ask her out
3. Plan out the date
4. Deal with flaky behavior
5. Deal with the text games and always having to contact her.
6. Be the entertainers

Are women worth the chase?