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I met a woman online a little over a month ago (S), and even though we vibed really well, like any couple getting started; we had our problems. I think we basically like/liked each other though. Last weekend, things got weird over plans to meet at a nightclub

Because S lives about a half hour drive away, visiting her isn't a totally trivial thing, but it's not a big deal either. I don't know anyone where S lives, so if I drive there, it's not like I have tons of people to chill with. So I drive up to the club where we were meeting. She walks in, dressed like a knock-out. She greets me with a hug, we walk up to the bar together, and then she tells me that she needs to use the bathroom. After about 15-ish minutes, I text her to ask if everything is okay. She opens the message, but doesn't respond. I text her a couple more times, joking around a little bit, because I figured that maybe she was having a freak out moment (dance clubs are weird like that; they can bring out stuff in people if the vibe isn't right). After 45 minutes, I decide that I'm going to go find something else to do and try to enjoy myself without her, because it seems like something weird is going on, and I don't want to spoil my night.

Well wouldn't you know it, but I see S standing at the bar, talking with some friends. So I walk up to her, and she kind gives me an aloof "hey," and introduces me to her allegedly cool friend and the friend's boyfriend. I say my name and then go to shake the boyfriend's hand, and he just gives me some lame bs handshake, and I don't think he even told me his name, or if he did; he mumbled it. Then, the supposedly cool friend gives me a really sketchy nod and says "hi..." in like a "what are you even doing here," sort of draw. So it's super obvious that neither of these people want to know me, at all. Then S asks if she can hang out with her friend alone. So naturally, I just told S that if she was going to hang out with her friend, I would just head home.

I met a girl online who has, in the month we'd been talking, told me that she felt things would probably be purely platonic between us. In the previous week, she said that she wanted me to meet her girlfriends, and said that I would get along well with one in particular.

After she told me that she'd been talking to another guy (like I said, only knew her for a month, so I appreciated her honesty), I expressed interest in still meeting her girlfriends sometime, but she left the message on read.

If I got shutdown, why would it matter if I met her girlfriends? She was kinda selling me on the one pretty hard.

Any insights?