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So my 30th birthday is coming up and I feel a bit down about it. One thing that gets me down is I'm going to be 30 and still a virgin. Not just that but I also never actually had a girlfriend. Actually I never even kissed a girl. This makes me feel like some weirdo or a loser.

I mean I have gone on a few dates before but not many, less then 10. I have had a handful of women ask me out on dates but for the most part I would just turn them down since I wouldn't be interested in them.

I only asked out a few women myself, less then have asked out me. But the thing for me is I find I have to get to know a girl and become her friend before I start to find myself interested in dating her. So by this point they usually just see me as a friend or they have lost interest in me or they were never interested in me to begin with. That and I am just horrible at picking up on when someone is flirting with me or is interested in me, I just assume they are being friendly.

I like to think that I'm a normal, nice guy. But just had bad luck. That and I'm a bit of an introvert so I have trouble meeting and opening up to new people. I wouldn't consider myself unattractive and I have had many women tell me they find me attractive so I don't see it as that. Whenever anyone mentions my past relationships or sexual partners I just lie since I find it so embarrassing.

I'm curious what women think of a guy like me. Do they see me as weird and a loser? Would they actually have an interest in dating a guy like me or no? What are just their general thoughts on a guy like me? Any advice you have for me to help me change this situation I'm in? Give me your honest opinion.