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I really like this guy I work with but things are so hot and cold that I can't figure out what's going on. I got the feeling that he's getting over someone because in a few chats, we've both talked about our exes. He showed me a pic of her too and told me stories about their time dating.

We're pretty close now and text, snapchat, goof off at work and now are starting to hangout outside of work or get lunch. We planned a trip, and he couldn't go for financial reasons. I was sad for him because he didn't make other plans to enjoy his vacation he just bummed around at home, so I got him a souvenir that he keeps in his pocket. He invited me to a concert coming up, I invited him for coffee. During that time he said he doesn't date because he's mentally got too much going on. I didn't decide if I wanted to date yet so I thought that was a bit... premature. I never ask anything to warrant his objections so I always feel like he's just talking to himself. In spite of that we stayed out for 2 hours and closed the cafe. In addition, I got confused because two weeks before he talked about asking out this girl to me and a mutual friend who then turned him down. When he told the story he again said he's too "depressed to date".

So I'm confused trying to figure out if he's interested in me, other girls, or wants to date but is still heartbroken. He planned to take me to the city for this concert, and talked about how we'll spend the day exploring, going to museums, and he mentions it and how he's excited. He keeps me updated on his life and even during a hypothetical, he looked me in my eyes and said he could spend the rest of his life with me. I haven't mentioned wanting to date, but sometimes when I talk to him he tells me how he feels like our generation isn't romantic and we're too physical (which I agree with) and talks about how he won't kiss on the first date because he wants to really get to know someone.

So to get an opinion from the best view possible, I have to tell you the entire story from beggining to end. But I'll make it short... ish. Grade 8-11 we were best friends, everyone thought we should date, but I friend zoned him. Untill about late grade 11, I finally said yes. We were the perfect couple from the eyes of our aquaintances. But he was an impulsive liar and yes I caught him in the act many times, but always forgave him which I shouldn't have. Then one day we went to a party I got too drunk and had sexual relations with a friend of ours. No excuses I did what I did. We broke up shortly after, so we dated untill the summer after graduation (approx 16 months). We completely stopped talking and I believed we would never speak again. I had always been close with his friends, and while we were broken up I talked to one in particular just so I knew how my Ex was doing and because they were honestly one of my best friends too. Then things got to be more than friends... Soon my Ex started talking to me again, which was the hardest thing I think the both of us had ever done. We slowly gre back our friendship and started to date again. Which didn't go over very well. Not only because he found out about me and our mutual friend having a relationship but because he found out from someone other than me. So there we were, saying goodbye for the second time. Not to our friendship but to our romantic relationship. Eventually in November of 2015 we stopped talking all together again. Then 68 days later he texts me... so now we're friends again... and on Valentines day we decided to hang out. A few of our friends were going to a bar we like and we ended up going. We danced and has some drinks, it was fun. Then twards the end of the evening he kissed me. We went home, and then... he drove the 20 minutes back to my place to sleepover, and you can guess how that went. I don't know what to think, feel, do or say. All I know is I love him. I'm in need of some advice!