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Who do you think learns from their mistakes - or even their partner's mistakes - and overall learns from their experiences in relationships with the opposite sex?

I feel like men do because you have guys out there who don't know what they had till it's gone, and that was a serious wake up call for them. And as dudes get older they will be honest and tell you how they messed up in a relationship. But also you have a lot of guys who were really very good to a woman and she was the one who took that completely for granted and walked away, and although it leaves those guys pretty broken, they eventually develop motivation from that breakup and do and become a lot better than where they were before. Even those videos from Coach Craig Kenneth profiled guys who wrote letters to him about their devastating breakup but how they later on became a lot stronger and were doing better things with their lives, and then that's when their ex girlfriends came back but the guys were no longer interested, or questioned if they even wanted to be back together.

I notice that women very rarely ever talk about mistakes they made in a relationship, how they regretted hurting the other person, or even how they could've done better. They will more often blame men for problems they had or for the bad relationship period, never taking any responsibility for their failures in it. They also tend to keep going back to guys who are toxic and don't even give a shit about them but turn their backs on guys who really do. I feel like the mentality of a lot of women is to just keep moving to the next guy and the next, or going back to what is problematic but familiar, instead of changing what's going on inside themselves.

But what do you guys think?

A few months back my stepdad was a little pissed off that a YouTube or TikTok video mentioned something about a "bisexual" woman, a video my brother watched — who turned 10 the month after that incident.

Now my stepdad is pretty chill with the LGBT talk, but he may still object.

Today my half-brother, who is 10, was discussing with his dad (my stepdad) about a documentary where a 10-year-old had an imaginary friend named Hitler. My stepdad objected, "What the hell are you watching?"

We were consistently talking about vaccine boosters, WW2 and WW3, and my stepdad stated that America fought Germany while befriending France.

I was stating to my stepdad that I wasn't going to get the booster, and he asked me why not, and I told him I don't know how it will affect me. My stepdad tried so hard to advise me not to say anything if I don't know about it. I told him I read on Twitter that many vaccines are tested on animals and that's why people aren't taking it.

My stepdad said something along the lines of, "They're afraid, they're talking out of their ass." Which is highly hypocritical, this was the minute after he told my brother to stop using the word "shit."

This makes me feel like my stepdad is telling me that I should only believe what the media tells me and not think for myself. He didn't use to believe in most of mainstream media YEARS ago. I don't know what changed him.

He voted for Trump, but he doesn't act like a Trump supporter at all which is the funny part about him. Most Trump voters I know are anti-vax-mandate people. I voted for Trump too and I don't think EVERYONE should have to get vaccinated.

Anyway regarding the Jojo Rabbit documentary, my brother was going to watch it on Netflix and his dad told him he doesn't "want him watching that kind of stuff." That is what worries me a bit.

Is it really that bad to teach your kids about the Holocaust and satire? I know most parents of 10yo's would take their kids to see JR.