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Search Results: finding decent guys
Why is finding a girlfriend so hard?
I’m a decent looking guy but have nearly zero success, any help?
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my boyfriend serious about me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months. He is a great guy and things moved quickly for us but in the last month or so I’ve been racked with the feeling that he isn’t as committed as I am. He has a friend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is it that guys judge me harsher than girls when I say I want to be a single mom?
I think it's because other girls know the reality of dealing with men and the what can happen if you decide to let a man in your or your childs life. Many women are killed by the child's father just for being...
Anonymous
(25-29) A Letter to a Surprising Friend, and His Help in Climbing Out of What Seemed to be a Bottomless Black Hole
I know this will be more helpful to me than anyone else, and also since this is anonymous and the person I'm writing about doesn't know about my account nor that this site even exists, then its not going to get to back to...
19magic
Guru Age: 29 Anyone can advice me on how to improve my dating life and reach my goals?
I've been a college student for the past few years, i met plenty of people, made many friends and plenty of girls as well, i went on many dates, dated 2 girls and met many others, almost all girls think iam very good...
Anonymous
(30-35) A Diversity of Admiration
My original inspiration for this MyTake was an a assignment in high school history class, in which our teacher asked us to name "one black person we admire". It got me thinking, "why only black people? Why not every...
ZeussLightningBolt
Editor Age: 34 I feel like I have no choice but give up on dating sometimes. Would it have been easier had I been attracted to women?
I feel like I have no choice but give up on dating sometimes. As a transgender woman who keeps her penis and who is attracted to men my chances of finding a decent man who is not a fetishist are very small. Sometimes I...
ElissaIsBelgian
Xper 4 Age: 30 Question For Women, Should I Go Back To My Country, No Luck In Dating?
I'm a 5'6 Chinese man, However living in the USA, the dominating race by numbers is obviously white people, 2nd black people, so a lot of averages is going to center around them. Not saying it's right or wrong, just...
RiceMan21
Xper 2 Age: 34 Would finding out someone had a dad bod be a deal breaker?
Lets say you met someone who had a decent looking face (like a 6-9 out of 10) during a time period where you can't really see their body because they are wearing a jacket or loose shirt (definitely not tight clothing)....
littlea7
Xper 4 Age: 27 Why is it so difficult finding a decent date?
I haven’t been on a date in years. I have asked guys and target declined for whatever reason and I don’t get asked out. But all my friends are engaged or married. I feel left behind and unattractive. They have guys...
Anonymous
(36-45) Heightism: the Type of Discrimination That You Didn’t Know Existed
Humans come in all different heights, some are short, some are medium, some are tall and very few are giant. So who usually tends to suffer the most when it comes to heightism? Most of you already know, it’s short people....
Why its so hard to find a girl who is remotely attractive and decent at the same time?
I have always been a one woman man and have looked in the past 4 years or so for a girl to date i met plenty of women through tinder, facebook, college, through friends... etc i went on plenty of dates and got attention...
3rdSrike
Xper 6 Age: 32 Who has a more difficult time finding a relationship between heavyset men or women and what brought you to thst decision?
So I'm a heavyset guy and I'm 28. I know I'm not ugly and maybe at least average in looks but I've never had luck with finding a relationship. Women just don't seem to find me attractive I guess. I've been used, led on...
Ouroboros8Fate
Xper 5 Age: 36 So getting a sugar daddy yay or nay?
may? I came across a slightly order guy whose offering me money to sleep with him and show him attention. he's not really easy on the eyes. But I'm a single new mom having a hard finding a decent job and I need to get my...
Anonymous
(30-35) 20 of My Favorite Movies With a Female Lead
THIS IS NOT MY TOP 20. These are just the ones that come to my head, there are so many and I could probably list another 20, but my goal here is to bring focus on some of classics and some of the movies that stood out to...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 27 no confidence?
My boyfriend and i met online 5 yesrs ago. Have are ups and downs like anyone else but my main heart ach is this. he's 27 from Argentina. Has never had a nice aolid decent job of any kind. He speaks English just like...
msmelimacks
Xper 4 Age: 30 Overcoming Childhood Abuse As An Adult
Sexual assault—especially that which occurred before adulthood—is something we don’t like talking about. We don’t like talking about it to the point that we may instinctively stigmatize the victim when he or she speaks...
Anonymous
(30-35) How are single guys actually meant to find decent girls?
I've tried people at school, I've tired online apps, I've tried social clubs, I've tried the local area. Yes I've had success with finding people, but they all end up wanting one thing... Or they are the general muck on...
JamesLawUK
Xper 4 Age: 24 Living With Epilepsy, or "Am I a Goddamn Werewolf"?
If you came here for a happy MyTake, this isn't one. For the past twelve-ish years I've suffered from audiogenic epilepsy with generalized properties of the left temporal lobe. Pleasure to meet you, Compo! *quiet...
Compodulator
Xper 5 Age: 36 Single Girl Rant: Feeling Hopeless That You Will Never Find "the One"? Ladies, You Are Not Alone.
Before anyone takes the initiative to chew my head off, I am aware that there is no such thing as "the one". When I refer to the one, I am speaking of an individual(s) that you have a special connection with from multiple...
Anonymous
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