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I friend zoned her a while ago.

-She’s an introvert who likes doing things on her own.
-If I don’t contact her, she’ll always contact you within a week (often sooner) without fail even multiple times.
-In the heat of the moment sometimes she says things like “we should go to x next time”.
-She comes to me or edges towards me if I don’t talk to her at parties. Then texts me afterwards asking if I’m ok if she doesn’t get to me
-She’ll talk to me away from the group if in a group but I don’t know if that’s because she’s too shy to say she wants to leave.
-I see her at least once a week alone, if she’s not busy, and she’ll make jokes like “it was weird not seeing you this week after getting so used to it. I see her in a group all the time.
-She’ll run away from me/ throw insults at me if in a group she sees mutual friends watching us talking and laughing at us. She doesn’t like photos of us together being posted on fb. She doesn’t like it when people gossip about her having a crush on a guy.
-She has a number of close guy friends.
-She often brings up the topic of dating in the context of others.
-She sometimes puts a big smile on when she finds out if going to something.
-Sometimes we look at each other. A mutual friend noticed this as well as the fact were next to each other a lot, and sometimes arrive together to things and thinks she has a crush on me.
She’ll move away if I get too close to her although not recently.

Earlier this year I developed a crush on my coworker, and we even worked together, did nothing work wise, all day Superbowl Sunday and we talked a lot and became super friendly with each other.
I would be kinda flirtatious with her because she'd come talk to me before leaving for the day and she would come tell me about her day during break.
She would always be super into a conversation with her best friend, then when they saw me they'd stop talking completely and just look at me like they were hiding something.
Well, one day while she was sharing a lunch with me, she mentioned she had a boyfriend, and from that moment on, I stopped being as flirtatious with her. But she would still act goofy around me.
Anyway, after our meeting a few weeks ago, I offered to take her empty plate and cup because we were sitting next to each other. She didn't say a word and just looked at me like I just said something truly insulting.
Over the past week, she hasn't said a word to me, but will look over at me and I tried saying something to her the other day about work and she just walked off.
When I worked with her today, I just kept my distance, but she kept looking over at me, so as she closed her computer to leave, I opened it up just to have some fun and once again she looked at me, but different like I did something horrible.

At this point, I don't talk about anything we used to, and I barely even say hi to her now. Ever since I stopped flirting with her she's become more and more distant and rude.

Do i just completely avoid her and not talk to her at this point? She doesn't affect my work and I don't need to talk to her to do my job. She's just near by.

I'm single and I've worked with this girl for about 8 or 9 months now. I personally find her very attractive and my friends have even made negative comments about her looks when they've seen me working with her, which usually makes me annoyed because I completely disagree.

Long story short, she already has a boyfriend and they've been together for 3 years. I've only met him a handful of times but he's always very dry and ignorant towards me and I usually catch him glaring at me, especially when I'm making her laugh like crazy while he's shopping and were working together.

When I say laugh like crazy I mean we get on really well. I always throw cheeky playful insults at her and can see her smiling and trying to hide it. She fires back at me and it's a back and forth kind of thing but it's all in good fun. We are always joking around and together twice someone else had made a comment that we fancy each other. When they did that, even though I secretly do fancy her, I said "that's fuckin disgusting" and she almost hit the floor laughing so hard.

We work 7hr shifts twice a week with each other and i finish an hour before her one day and she finishes an hour before me the other day and each time we avoid taking our break until the other person leaves because we'd rather just hang out while working instead of taking a break up in the boring canteen. We even get pretty sulky if one of us is off on holiday for one of the shifts and the other person has to work with someone else.

If either of us are in shopping or working separate shifts we will go out of our way to come over and have a chat and usually get told off for laughing around or distracting the other while their at work. If we see each other anytime we aren't working together and can't get a chat we will wave and usually laugh.

I've a mad crush on her and I'm just not sure if she feels the same or just thinks I'm funny and likes the company in work. Sorry if that was a long boring read. What should i do?