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So I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 9 months. he's my first everything and we have our ups and downs... Broke up about 4 times 😔 But we always seem to get back with each other bc we really love each other a lot. Anyways, he recently got in touch with an old friend from facebook who is really pretty and a year younger than me. In the past they have done a lot of crazy things together and he says she's the female version of him, while im the complete opposite of him. But he said he likes that about me the most how im nothing like him. Anyway, he told me he met up with her a few days ago.. i was kinda if-y about it but he assures me its just friendship. They never had anything between theem by the way. Anyway, he asked if i would be ok if he went kayacking with her one day and i said its up to him. He offered me to go too, but i know i will only be the third wheel in their little date so i said no. I don't know what to do or feel about this situation... I feel her as a threat and that he finds her attractive and has so much in common with her that he'll leave me😥 or cheat and have me stringing along... Advice?

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We met on a dating app, he's a little shy, but nice, thoughtful and he said he liked me. Last Saturday was our second date, We cuddled during the movie, and he kissed my forehead, he wanted kissed lips, I rejected, he asked me to sit on his leg, I rejected. The rejection didn't mean I hate him, I wanna take it slow, he said he understood and respected it. He told me next time he would take me to karaoke. Before he left, he asked me "did you have a good time" for 4 times.

After that, I texted him, said I was happy to be with him, just a little shy. He replied he wanted me to have a good time, We said good night to each other. The next day, Just in case he lost interest in me for my coldness, I texted again talked about the weather, he's a writer, so I encouraged to finish 4 chapters coz the rainy day is good time for creating and conceiving ideas, he replied" that's a lot;)" and since then, I didn't text him until yesterday, I think test often maybe annoying, although I miss him. If he miss me, he will definitely send sth, so all I do is just wait his text and a third date

I haven't followed him on FB, I wanna leave him a space for personal stuff. But I do search him and see what goes on him, I saw his last update was on Monday. The dating app, showed he was active 6 days before, and the text I sent to him got no replied, which's said I miss u:(

Im really confused, can't stop thinking what may happen to him, I even think he may have an accident, though I don't want that happen to him. All these things just worried me, I have no idea if he is good.

I just want him be ok, whatever he'll do to me, stop dating's cool, even though I like him that much, I have my pride, I ll let him go and persue his happiness.. ALA he is alright. I can take it.

Will you do this to a girl instead of just tell her directly, like we are not perfect for each other? If it's a way to stop date, I won't text him. Thanks!