Search Results: if i date him he&#39;ll hurt me

Did I ignore red flags during my 6 month relationship?

My ex told me somethings and at the time I didn’t realize they were red flags. One thing was that she didn’t agree with interrelationships and people should only date their own race. I’m Mexican and she was black. Another...

Rcflife

Xper 5 Age: 32

Being friends with an ex?

I broke up with my ex about three years ago. He was my first guy I ever loved. I got frustrated with him because he had a really bad alcohol problem back then, and it wasn't getting any better. It hurt like hell, but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I even bother or move on?

I recently started seeing this guy. We have gone on 6 dates over the course of 3 weeks. At first I was a little hesitant given my past dating experiences but needless to say I have started to let my guard down a little....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Mixed signals are too much to handle?

So I met this guy over the summer when I was abroad and we literally was each other once but we were introduced by a common friend so he asked her for my number and ask me for a coffee date but it was my last two days in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have any of you given up on Love?

Every time I dated the feelings where never both sides. It was always one sided. I would always find out I was the one who was really in love while the other person never had love for me. Its different if both people had...

xxashiaskxx_

Xper 5 Age: 26

Do you think he’s being genuine?

I dated a guy for about 8 weeks, we have a great time together and he’s been a real gentleman. But today he asked me to come over and talk with him. So I went to his plane and he broke it off with me. Told me he thinks...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Red Flags From My Last Relationship, Part Two

This is a late follow up to the my take I posted above. Another user, @errorgoodnameunfound inspired me to make another. My last relationship ended about 6 months ago. Now that I've healed a lot better, I revisited things...

1truekhaleesi

Editor Age: 29

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I'm scared of hurting him?

I've known this guy for about 5-6 years. We dated for a while in the start of our friendship. Sometime in between that, he fell in love but I didn't. We were on and off a couple a times and after that, he always tried to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can you change a cheap penny pinching guy?

Hello everyone! I recently met a guy who checks all my boxes except for 1: He is cheap as fuck. This for me is particularly unattractive. I am very good with money and I am frugal and choosey with my spending...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Demisexuality: How It Works as An Adult

During my years at the university, I focused more on my studies than I did my romantic relationships. But along the way I've made amazing friends that I still keep contact with even after I graduated and moved away. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Ok I need some serious help?

So back when i was in highschool a few years ago i got bullied pretty badly... like really bad... just every year was pretty much hell for me... so in highschool i had a huge crush on this guy in one of my classes and ig...

maysun930

Xper 2 Age: 28

Why is he now messaging me when he ended things years ago?

I met this guy in college, we went on some dates and hung out several times, but didn't fool around. I didn't make the best first impression meeting all of his friends, he threw a get together and invited all of his close...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I asking too much of him?

My boyfriend and i have been together over a year now. He is my first ever boyfriend but i am not his first girlfriend and i guess thats where some insecurities lie. I try not to be clingy and i give him space. He works...

Delany

Xper 4 Age: 27

50 Things Guys Wish Girls Knew

Yes, there is a list! A well protected, closely guarded document that goes beyond ‘what to wear on the first date’ and delves deep into the things that really matter to the tough ones. Men chase women and women woo men,...

adamski24

Master Age: 45

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Dating behaviors or selfish acts?

My gosh I haven’t done this in years! But I figured asking never hurt. I think I like this guy. We live far away from one another and had sex one. It was great, after words I got on my plane and left. No big deal. We...

Curiousflirt

Xper 4 Age: 33

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Diary Entries and Poems From My Childhood

Intro: Hey, guys, I'm back! I'm uhh sharing random writing from my childhood today. I'm sorry that I can't give EXACT dates. I only know the age I was because I was weird and only wrote down ages. Also, a lot of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Have you ever had the "Right Person Wrong Time" kind of relationship?

i dated a amazing girl who i realized was right for me too late. she was someone i met in high school track and we instantly clicked. We would always get touchy and joke around together and she would always care for me....

Anonymous

(25-29)