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Ok so this was on a latino soap opera.
The girl forgave but would you forgive if a guy's mother gave you all this hell:

- The woman's husband cheated and she thinks your mother is the mistress
- Your mother and the woman's husband died. The woman spreads rumors to everyone that your mother was the mistress and every single day talks bad about your deceased mother
- The woman bans her son from seeing you when both of you are still 10 year-old children
- One day the woman takes her anger at you and slaps you... when you're only 10, calling you a slut just like your mother
- 10 years later and the son stops by to visit his old town and after so much rumor the woman spread to everyone about you and your mother... many people hate you and think you're a slut
- You get reunited with your childhood friend and the woman slaps you after finding out but you slapped her back as an adult
- After so much trouble she gave you, it's confirmed that your mother was never the mistress but rather the mother's sister (the girl's aunt)
- All people in town now hate the woman for spreading false, misleading information
- The woman personally visits you and apologizes for everything

Would you forgive that? For guys, if one of the girl's parents made your life miserable like that or similar for 10 years (to the point of making people in town hate you for no reason) to that would you forgive?

Let's say you have a 7 year old son. He's a really quiet boy, he's kind and follows the rules. He doesn't have many friends but he has 2 friends. Your son saw a little girl crying and lonely so he shared cookies with her. Your son is never selfish and he listens well. He used to wet the bed sometimes and woke up crying saying his stomach hurts but other than that he never gets in trouble in school, makes good grades, and is helpful around the house. He was also easy to potty train and people always tell you how well behaved he is

I am pregnant by a guy that I've known for 3 months he's got a bit of baggage I'm not sure if y'all remember but I've asked questions about the situation a couple weeks ago. Well his job is relocating him to another state and he wants me to go with him. He has kids here by two different women and he has kids in another state with another woman. A couple weeks ago I found out that he lied about how many kids he has with how many different women I also learned of his drinking problem and his very lengthy criminal record on top of several DWIs and his bad drinking problem.
After everything had surfaced he has been pretty honest with me about everything from there on. He hasn't talked to the most recent bm and says he is on child support so will just keep paying support and no need to deal with her because she's drama. I have a son from a previous relationship also. I am considering going with him but there are few things that concern me that I want opinions on. One is with his history of having kids with multiple women and not marrying them is it possible that he can change and will be faithful and marry me? Two he has a drinking problem whenever he wants to drink he leaves because his personality changes when intoxicated and he does things to get himself into trouble and lands him in jail is it possible he will get help? Three since meeting him when he was in work release in jail he has asked me for money I've given him money to fix his car I've put money on his books and now I've given him my second car that I have. Part to me want to believe that he really loves me and wants to be there for me and the baby and other parts of me feels like he may be using me. I am much younger than him also I am in my early twenties he is in his late 30s I can't understand or see why he would ask me to relocate with him if he really didn't want to be with me and didn't love me but I am having doubts and going back and forth in my head about this and I really would like guys opi