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So, I met this girl on tinder, but I'm feeling pretty self conscious about not having a job. I'm in a transition rn. I have money saved and stuff so dating isn't an issue. It's just such a conversation killer when the topic comes up. I feel like girls immediately become skeptical of your worth when they hear you're unemployed. I've looked up guides to help avoid deal with the topic if it comes up but at the same time I feel like it's just inevitable that I'm going to not qualify for most women's standards no matter what. To make matters worse I'm still a virgin and socially awkward around women. What do you ladies think? Should I just not go through with it? What are your thoughts on the situation? (I'm in college living in the dorms to put my situation into better perspective. I dress nice, always. I mess around too much, I get lost in my thoughts frequently, I've been called a cynic, social situations can give me anxiety, I'm slightly overweight, just the tip. I study the hard sciences, chemistry, physics, and biology. My greatest fault is my enormous ego, which prevents me from opening up to people in public, festers insecurities, and makes it hard for me to not sound sarcastic when I try to give people genuine compliments).

I'm thinking of getting the surgery as I can't get a woman being a man but I know I can get men easier by being a woman. Women have it so much better and easier than men in the dating world and the includes overweight women. I think I am a mistake made by god and I want to correct his mistake. I'm tired of the hate and I want to be loved.