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We have been pals for years now. We do have a bond and care for one another. He has told me I know more about him than anyone because he tells me everything. No- we have never done anything sexual.

Postive signs:
-I feel him stare at me sometimes
-Few weeks ago he grabbed my arm and didn't let go until I said something to him.
-He sometimes mocking me on how I say certain words/poking fun.
-When my foot was near his chair- he grabbed it and gave a quick squeeze
-Told him I was dying my hair blonde and he said “I like blondes!”
-Told him to kiss my *** and he said “I just might do that!”
-Smiles when I enter the room.
-Told him I might move to Florida- and he said "but I am not in Florida!"
-Started watching a show together and he was SO excited and we text about it several times a week.

Negatives:
He is trying to date and ask my advice, tells me about girls, etc. almost each time I see him. He has never had a girlfriend. He is a virgin.

I’m confused on what is goin on in his head... HELP?

No- we have never done anything sexual. I am in a relationship.

He has done the following with me over the past 6 months.

-I feel stare at me sometimes
-Grabbed then held my arm and didn't let go until I said something to him.
-Very playful when we were at a party.
-He kept mocking me on how I said certain words/poking fun.
-When my foot was near his chair- he grabbed them and gave a quick squeeze
-Told him I was dying my hair blonde and he said “I like blondes!”
-told him to kiss my *** and he said “I just might do that!”
-Smiles when I enter the room.

We have been pals for years now. We do have a bond and care for one another. He has told me I know more about him than anyone because he tells me everything. He isn't usually that touchy with me- but as of a few months ago he added the touch. I don't know WHY.
BUT. He also is trying to date and ask my advice, tells me about girls, etc. He has never had a girlfriend. He is also a virgin.
I’m confused 😐

People today now use fillers to enlarge their lips
Fake eyelashes to make their eyes more alluring
dye their hair to make themselves look better
labia enlighteners and surgeries to make their down stairs more appealing
straighter curly hair or curl straight hair to make a change in look
waist trainers
skin lightening or skin tanning to change their complexion
some even get breast or ass enlargement etc etc.

Most of these things are things people do to enhance their looks and still it's not looked down upon, however I notice people tend to have a different opinion once they find out someone has fake colored eyes.. why? it's just the same as the person dying their hair.. it's not their natural hair color yet they change it to upgrade, or the ones with makeup which tend to be all even if it's minimal it's to upgrade and it's not that they were born with makeup, just like the contacts..

Many guys say they don't prefer all this but really in the right proportions, girls look way better after being altered and those are the ones getting the most attention and guys want that type because men are visual creatures and are captured by the perfected look, so why on here do you all diss on that when in reality you all drool over it? I don't get it. I'm not talking about the ones that over do it and look totally fake,.. I'm talking about the ones that make it all look natural or close to it when it's really fake and guys like it, yet here they say they don't but in real life their eyes go THERE!
Back to my point in question..
why are many people looked down on for waring fake colored contacts?

What's your opinion?