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So I am 23 and have a lot of college age friends. I'm not in college myself, nor do I plan to go.
However a problem that a lot of college students have with student housing is that when the semester ends, they have no where to go and start trying to rent off the campus or a lot of times go back to their parents homes, which doesn't always work out to keep consistent employment, nd often times once you get on st a decent job that allows flexible hours for school, it's hard to get back when you return. I'm not blind I understand it's a struggle.

I am currently living with my boyfriend, and I'm not much of a "going out" or even "inviting" friends over to hang out kind of person. We do have a spare bedroom and 2 bathrooms though. However I just don't like the idea of having to share my space, or having to wear pants in my own home.

Well awhile back a friend of mine had been worried about where she was going to go when school ended. SO she came to me and we were talking and she brought it up. "Yeah I'm just not sure what I'm gonna do, my hands are really tied... hey, don't you have a spare room?"
Which for 1, I didn't like that she was kind of trying to invite herself into my home. And 2, I don't like the idea of some other girl living in my home with my boyfriend. I don't believe he'd do anything, but I also don't trust that she wouldn't have a drunken night and try any funny business.

Anyway I replied with something along the lines of "Yeah... but you know my cat, she really needs her space."
My "friend" kinda just stood there quietly for a second so I took the opportunity to tell her I needed to finish some stuff up before I went home and left.

NOW THOUGH apparently she's gone around telling our coworkers that I'm the wicked witch of the west who is refusing to help her in her time of need.

AITA?

My friends with benefits keeps contacting me. Sending me Christmas wishes through his friends and cousins telling them to ask me to unblock him. I blocked his ass because this nigga has a girlfriend but he told me :'I'm not in love with her. I want her to break up with me. I am in love with you. Honestly the love is dead there. And we are just in it for our son.' They have a son together. And this guy basically told everyone his in love with me. We had a pretty good friends with benefits situation. We didn't have sex much. Sometimes he would just come see me even when my lady flow is in Town. He bought me a gift for my bday and a chocolate when i was on my period as he asked me what do you crave when you on your period but that just happened recently he never done it in the beginning this was before I got a text from her number like just a few weeks before.

Like I trusted this guy so much I confided in him and he was very supportive of me and my business. He would buy things from me to show his support. Liked him.
After the text I got from his girlfriend wishing me so bad on my love life and that she will fight me and she claimed she's his girlfriend And was so rude but I wasn't rude back I just told her to go off on him cause i didn't know his an asshole for lying and cheating and was it really my fault that he cheated on her his the one who lied to us both. So I decided I'm going to leave this toxic situation and I blocked him everywhere his calls, sms's and whatsapp. So now two of his cousins sent me texts like he asked i must unblock him and they not together anymore and his friend texts me too. He wished me happy holidays for the season and that he loves me even though he said that with his clothes on too and during sex. He calls frequently but the calls get blocked automatically.

I don't wanna talk to him but all I can think of is he wants to use me for sex again. And im not going back. Im keeping him blocker but he just can't leave me alone.