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I have been seeing a girl once a week for about a month now. We are not in a "relationship" but we have been having steady sex. Based on some of her actions I asked her if she wanted to date "officially" and she said she still wants to get to know me. Oh boy thank god! I didn't really care either way you know? I go with the flow.

Well, I had a couple of public events that I was going to go to by myself. But I felt that the girl (her name is Olivia) would be offended if I was posting all these pictures of an event on my facebook without inviting her. Right? So I invite her to the event.

She started screaming at me last night because I didn't let her come to my apartment at a time that SHE wanted. She works close to my apartment but lives a 30 minute bus ride away. I work a 30 minute bus ride away from my apartment and closer to her place. Anyway, the point is that she is mad at me because I wanted to take a shit, wipe my butt, take a shower, and get changed before inviting her to my place. I am usually stressed after work and want some time to be alone and get ready. Having people be in my place is stressful to me. Also I would be doing public speaking at the event. Something I was nervous about. Since the event, She has been yelling at me because I didn't let her stay at my apartment immediately when I arrived home from work. I requested that she come later when I was ready. This meant that she had to wait for 2 hours because she gets off work before me and then add my travel time to get home.. blah blah blah. She also was angry because I didn't let her spend the night on a weeknight after having sex because it would add stress to my morning routine for work.

She has never invited me to her place. Not once.

Am I wrong for saying that she has no right to make demands about when to stay at my home? Am I wrong for telling her that I do not need to offer any explanation for what time I ask her to stop over?

I had a very hard time earlier this year. The stress i got from everything in my life was too much for me to handle. My job demanded a lot of labor within 40 hours, my studies and exams in my semester wore me out, i had no time for any hobbies and the chores in my home piled up as a result.
so one day after work i came home earlier than usual to do something about my stress levels and emotional health.
my then girlfriend of 9 months asked me via text how i am and me being the honest man i told her, that I'm down and in tears. She decided to come over to me to support me and i think that's where things went dead wrong. We cuddled and she saw me crying and She also broke into sobbing and tears.

2 weeks later she ceased all contact with me and ghosted on me and left me with her lies, that she'll always be there for me and that she can't leave me like this and that she loves me too much. Well, she did the exact opposite.
it's been 6 months since then.

so like what can we learn from it? Never cry? Never let your woman see your wounds and tears? Never tell your woman that you're down and in tears? We men are the leaders and if a leader falls, then he'll be left out? is that it? Were we as boys taught this for this exact reason? It's literally impossible. We aren't indestructible machines.
Or was she just a bitch and the relationship could not have lasted either way? She was my first everything from my first kiss all the way through intimacy. 🤷