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I have observed that women in general are much more rude to male strangers than vice versa. In certain scenarios that might be warranted say if a woman was walking alone on a dark street. But in other common public in public and completely safe place women act rude for the hello of it. Unless of course if they think the guy is cute they are not surprisingly more friendly. But if he is just average or unattractive guy they act rude to varying degree (anywhere from giving a “you creep” glance all the way up saying something nasty).

I have plenty if incidents where just being in proximity or just say hello with no sexual context I’ve had women be rude. But I remember one incident when I was 23. I was walking down the street in a popular part of a college town. A blonde 19 yr old walked up to me on the street out of nowhere. She then ask me “hey do you know so and so is”. The name sounded familiar but it didn’t click right away. But thinking it might be a positive flirty sign by auto response I just said “ah yeah”. She then said “you look just like him” with a cunt look and walked off.

I then immediately realized who she was talking about and it was a very nasty insult. I wish it was legal to punch her in the face after that. But that little cunt knows the whole world was on her side.

I know people can be dbags but can you see a guy walking up to a random girl:young woman and saying something like that in broad daylight? Maybe if he some crazy sketched out homeless guy but otherwise hell no.

Been seeing this girl on and off (no label). Kind of a complicated situation. I'm 27, she's 20, with a really protective family and a lot of older siblings. Seems like during a 2 month period she was back in her country, we weren't together but texting, she got a "boyfriend". I didn't know until one night we were hanging out recently, her little sister said something like "insert name, misses her boyfriend". I said "what, you've got a boyfriend?" and she looked at the sister angry and said to me "no" twice. The younger one wanted to put me on her Instagram live and the girl gave her a death stare.. which now makes sense because she didn't want the boyfriend in the other country to see she was out with me at a bar at 1am. The boyfriend looks like a spotty 17 year old, so I don't know if it's like one of those weird texting kid relationship things. The other night the girl said to me "in this relationship" about me and her, and I thought she was hinting.

The next night after she denied having a boyfriend, her guy friend the same age asked her in front of me "so how's your boyfriend back home". The girl tried to divert attention but was drunk and ended up telling him "he's a good guy" this is his name etc. The same night she was walking down the street and holding my hand and flirting hard.

She knew I was mad, I went silent and cut the night short, said I was tired and took her home. Her face looked worried like I could cut her off. She text me the next day to break the ice and I was cold, but didn't say anything. I text her tonight, she said she knew I was annoyed, but I think she thinks it was because I was jealous she flirted with the friend (which I was). Quick replies between us, and then in short I said "you told me one night you didn't have a boyfriend, then the next night you were talking about a boyfriend back home to your friend". So you're either confused, don't know what you want or lied. She left it on read, but would have read it on her home screen.

I'm technically married but separated from my wife, to cut a long story short we was together for 12years,10weeks ago I suffered a nervous breakdown because I stupidly tried to bury instead of confront PTSD issues I had, I ended up being put in a crisis house some miles away, wife said she loved me and was gonna support me, but swiftly moved all my stuff out instead when I wasn't there to my parents house and told them I'm not to contact her again.
I was shocked at this, we rarely argued and I was at my lowest, I lost my house, car, job, pets, everything basically overnight. I hadn't really bothered with my mates over the years because she was my best friend and that's all I needed.
Now, I've been put in a hotel and i'd say the hardest thing for me to deal with right now is the lonelyness, I started seeking new friends via a chat app and met a great girl from California who works as a nurse, (I'm in the UK) she's 10years younger than me but we really seem to have a connection, she's well out of my usual league, we chat everyday and my feelings towards her are getting stronger and stronger, I feel she feels the same as she's talking about booking flights in Jan/Feb to come and see me. The problem is my confidence, I know I've got absolutely nothing to offer her and i know she can do much better than me, afterall, I'm 38 and have NOTHING, haven't even got my health at the moment because I've got a badly trapped nerve in my back which effects my mobility at present. I haven't hidden anything from her including the fact I may be homeless when the coronavirus dies down (hotel payed for by the council because the homeless aren't allowed on the streets at present)
I just want to know, from a female perspective, out of all the people she could get with in the world has she picked me? I have more baggage than British Airways.
The other issue however is the wife, she decided last week she wants me back and I told her to do one, was that wise given my present circumstances?