Men are 100% visually stimulated and they desire a woman almost in seconds, instantly if she is attractive enough.
Men don’t need to know a woman that much in order to desire her. When men walk down the street they can desire many women constantly in a very short period of time.
That’s how much men are visual.
When people say women aren’t visual they mean this. They mean that they are not visual as much as men are.
Because men don’t even need to know a woman to desire her or find her sexually attractive but women are different. Typically they need to know men before desire them or find them attractive even if it is couple minutes.
Evolution shaped female and male brains differently.
Men look for fertility signs in women. And those signs are 100% visual signs. Like curvy body, hip to waist ratio, buttocks, youthfulness, breasts these are all visual signs therefore when men see a pretty woman they instantly feel sexual arousal. They feel sexual urge.
Women aren’t like this. They have to know the guy little bit before feeling that.
Why is this like that?
Because again evolution shaped them differently.
A man’s value comes from his ability to survive and dominate and women can’t understand which men are worthy to survive just based on looks.
Because there are a lot of other factors like confidence, aggressiveness, courage, social skills, intelligence, status or any other masculine personality traits that make a man survive and succeed in life.
Because women want to get genes from valuable men, they want to mate with men who will survive in this world. Because if women get pregnant by weak men they have to spend all their resources and time literally for nothing.
Therefore they have to be careful and understand a man’s personality before feeling anything.
Women are visual of course but not like men. Generally they have to see men’s attitude, movements, tone of their voice, how they move, how they act before making decision.
Why? Because that’s how they understand a man’s true personality.
A man can look good and strong on the outside but he can be insecure, timid and coward or feminine inside. That wouldn’t make that man to survive. Therefore women have to know a man little bit before finding him sexually attractive.
Because they want to be sure about him instinctively.
How many times you see a good looking man but after he speaks or moves he behaves like a child or he is awkward, timid and passive or worst he is very effeminate.
Yeah, therefore women can’t understand or decide a man’s attractiveness based on pictures. Just based on frames. Because they have to see action, they have to see movements, they have to see manners and they can’t see those in pictures.
That’s why in online women don’t find most men attractive because they can’t tell based on pictures. That’s why women don’t like dick pictures from random men because they are not aroused visually like men do.
This is why women don’t like watching porn as much as men. That’s why women prefer novels and stories more than porn. Because they can get the context of the story, they can understand personalities of characters. That’s what makes them feel aroused.
Women need context. They need little bit information about a man before desiring him. Because that’s how they evolved.
Women can see a very good looking guy in picture and still they may not desire him or find him attractive instantly but after they see his personality, how he moves, how he behaves in real life even for a couple minutes then they may find him extremely attractive and they might get really aroused for him.
When it comes to visual signs women look for height, fit-toned body, symmetrical decent looking face and then they look for masculine personality traits like confidence, courage, aggressive and dominant behavior (not too much), they look for intelligence and status.
Because these traits make a man survive in a wild world.
Having tall and muscular body (not too much women prefer toned body the most) is attractive for women because they make a man look more dominant and aggressive. On the other hand short guys might look weak.
Therefore women find height and muscles really attractive. But just these aren’t enough. Also instinctively they try to understand your true personality. Are you confident, are you intelligent enough? Do you have good social skills? Are you masculine enough?
Because just having height and body aren’t enough. In a wild, dangerous world you need to be confident and little bit aggressive and dominant to survive and reach resources and therefore women are wired to seek to get to know men before making decision, before feeling anything.
If you are insecure, timid, passive or submissive and socially awkward you couldn’t survive in a wild world. You would get left behind and dominated by other men.
That’s why women care about men’s personality as much as their looks.
Of course looks is highly important. Without having enough looks nothing will work we all know that. You have to have decent enough looks to pass the barriers of women’s mind.
But just having looks isn’t enough in many times also.
If you are really handsome and have everything physically like tall, fit body, very good looking masculine face then women may find you attractive in a very short period of time. They may notice you instantly and don’t even need to know your personality that much because of halo effect. But how many men are like that?
But for majority of men like 99% of all men it doesn’t work like that.
Women need to know them little bit even if it is for couple minutes before feeling anything. Before finding them sexually attractive.
Majority of men have to approach women and show them that they really desire them, they have to show that they are confident and masculine, they have to show their social skills and build trust. They have to communicate with women little bit.
If they don’t women won’t desire them.
Even sometimes a man can look good on the outside ( tall, relatively good looking face) but after talking with women he might show weakness, he may act needy, insecure, cowardly or awkward. He may act feminine. Then women lose their sexual attraction instantly and they get turn off. Because women don’t desire men like men desire women.
They care about attitude and manners a lot also.
Women need to see action, they need to see movements. As i said they need context about men. That’s what makes them go crazy and feel aroused.
Women may see a picture of muscular male body and feel nothing but if they see in the real world or even in a video when that guy walking on the street with confidence or doing some kind of work with passion then they might feel sexually aroused and find the guy very attractive.
That’s how women are wired. They programmed to motion not vision. They programmed to confident, masculine attitude.
So just pictures won’t do much for women but actions or movements will.
And what women really crave in a man what they really look for is masculinity. Masculine attitude is the most sexiest trait a man can have.
Masculine; confident, aggressive, competitive and dominant males survived and beat the competition throughout the all history and women became highly attracted to masculine men.
These men take what they want, they are courageous. That’s why women desire bad boys and hate nice guys. Because bad boys are aggressive and courageous while nice guys act submissive and passive.
Women desire masculine men. They want masculine men. And they can’t understand that just based on visual signs. They can’t see your masculinity just based on pictures. They need context.
This is how average or okay looking men can be highly sexually attractive with having confidence and masculine attitude. Because women are hardwired to it.
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