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Search Results: ways to approach guys at a gym
Hey guys and girls what is the appropriate way to approach a female without being deemed a threat or creepy or scary to her to approach friendly?
i'm wanting to meet a girl my age at a social public place like at a gym but i have never approached a woman before but i don't want to seem scary or creepy or even a threat to her. and i want to make a warm welcoming and...
ladiesman2117
Xper 2 Age: 31 Why would his friend or girlfriend make fun of me at the gym?
I go to the gym about 3-4 times a week, it's been that way for about 3/4 years. For the past two years I've been constantly running into the same guy. It's not planned on my side at all, I go to the gym after my school...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls/ Women, is it really 'Confidence' that attracts you to a guy?
Please read. Is it true, that girls/ women only approach confident guys in genral, weather they find him attractive or not? I had a talk with my mum about it, and she said confidence does attract the opposite sex, I feel...
Shane_B
Xper 7 Age: 28 No confidence whatsoever? Is there a cure?
Im a guy, and I have absolutely NO confidence. Not like when approaching women only or any specific case like that. At any interaction with other human beings. Every time I'm outside, I feel so stressed, my hands are...
Anonymous
(36-45) People Who Need to Get Off the Internet
Hi. I won’t even lie to you people, this Mytake is 100 per cent just to piss people off. I’m in that kind of mood today. I didn't go to the gym this morning, so, I had some time to kill. You're welcome. There are...
Should I trust this girl telling me not to go for a guy? please read details? I need help?
A guy and i have been talking for a while after he approached me and asked for my number (at the gym). but his intentions aren't really clear with me, and we only have 1 mutual friend between us thats a girl who is my age...
melissa2910
Xper 2 Age: 31 Should I trust this girl friend who tells me to stay away and not go for a guy? please read the details?
so this guy and i have been talking for a while after he approached me and asked for my number (at the gym). but his intentions aren't really clear with me, and we only have 1 mutual friend between us thats a girl who is...
samantha2910
Xper 2 Age: 31 Slept w/my ex of 4 years while im talking to another girl im in love with but not datin yet, am I wrong? please read details? should I tell her? help?
long story short im 31 she's 24, met at local gym, see her everyday, she's a gym addict n fittest girl ever. a big loner/introvert/hermit n always by herself- never saw her w/ a guy/friend. isn't the most approachable....
daniel4321
Xper 2 Age: 39 Is Asking For True Passion Not Realistic Nowadays?
I love to please whilst being in control, I'm straight but I need to give pleasure to both men and woman. Mentally because I'm really into psychology (even if I chose to follow a trilingual course in Uni and having so...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is it so hard to approach random women anywhere?
Well just as the title says. I could be at the gym, supermarket, or just walking around and see a beautiful girl and not make a move. I am always scared of coming off as creepy, what to say, how I look, is this the right...
Anonymous
(36-45) Approach Anxiety and My Inner Monologue (sounds like the name of a really bad play)
DISCLAIMER: SORT OF EXPLICIT LANGUAGE AHEAD. IF YOU'VE GOT SENSITIVE DELICACIES, HIT THAT BACK BUTTON. I don't really know why I'm writing this. I suppose it's good to reflect on your failures from time to time. Maybe I'm...
JSmuve
Master Age: 37 Approach a cute guy at the gym?
Heya, About three weeks ago I noticed this dude looking over at me multiple times. I didn't think much of it at first, besides that he wasn't unapealing to look at. I figured it was just coincedence and he even was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ill stay single forever probably, why?
im 17 yo. Girls are into me but im kinda very picky and i dont like to send message first but ofc they all think i have girlfriend mostly cuz im "bodybuilder" so they dont start convo and im just not type of guy who start...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Any tips on how to approach a muscular men at the gym?
I am attracted to a very muscular men who goes to my gym. I usually don't look anyone when I go to the gym , I do my workout and leave. I do think I am in a good shape but I am not the very muscular woman type. I like to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, How do I break the gossip after being "the guy that stared" at local gym?
Pretty straight forward: I caught myself staring, more than a couple times, while working out at the gym. It is difficult not too. Several of the trainers there are just drop dead gorgeous... maybe it's more instinctual...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What would be the reason for him acting like this?
So there’s this guy at the gym that I’ve been crushing on! I messaged him on Facebook & just straight up told him “hey I see u at the gym all the time & I just wanted to tell u that u are so handsome” & he responded &...
Anonymous
(30-35) In what way should I approach a woman?
Approaching women is kind of new to me since I've only been with women I previously known or met on Tinder. Approaching a stranger is a whole new ball game and I know it takes confidence, but also knowing what to say. I...
fsu19
Xper 7 Age: 29 I'm an attractive guy and I want to know what is the best way to approach a woman at the gym. I'm not afraid of rejection?
I don't want to interrupt their workout. Plus it's kind of an unspoken rule not hit on girls at the gym. I'm a very nice guy, but I'm a little too nice sometimes
Creamofthecrop2255
Xper 4 Age: 47 Girls, Should I contact my high school crush?
As most boys and girls do, back in high school I had a massive crush on someone. It's been a couple of years since high school graduation. Although much has happened since then, I still occasionally think about my old...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why Don't Girls Like You? You're a NICE GUY!
You're a nice guy, SOOOOOOOO NICE! And the "girls" don't like you. WHY? Why, oh why, oh whiny whine whine why? You are not a nice guy. You THINK you're a nice guy, but you're not. You're a whiny, entitled bitch-boy. Real...
HereIbe
Guru Age: 54 