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Do guys expect more out of girls? or do girls expect more out of guys? Which gender wants more positive qualities in the opposite sex? guys or girls? In my opinion, I think girls expect more out of guys, because guys have to be confident, have to have the right attitude, the right social skills, conversation skills, talking skills, the right mentality, actually have a life, have a fun personality. Meanwhile, a lot of guys will accept a girl who is bratty or boring, has no life, is not a good talker, not confident, if she is at least really cute and hot. Girls still expect a lot out of guys even if the guy is in good shape and overall, good looking. But people always say the Grass is Greener on the other side, so it could be debatable.

Do you think it is harder for a guy to be appealing, attractive, boyfriend material to a girl? or is it harder for a girl to be appealing, attractive, girlfriend material to a guy? Overall, do you think it's harder for a guy to get a girlfriend than it is for a girl to get a boyfriend? Personally I think us guys have it harder, even though people will always say that the grass is always greener on the other side, but from a Common Sense view, I think us guys have it harder, because the thing is that many guys will accept, be interested and like a girl who’s bratty, has a boring personality, not outgoing, bad social skills, not confident or has no life if she’s at least really hot, like a girl can have those negative qualities but if she is really and very hot, gorgeous, looks like a model, guys will still accept her and like her. If us guys are very hot, good-looking, look like a GQ Model, have 6-pack Abs, etc., sure that would help a lot but girls still expect more from a guy even if he is really hot. Overall, girls expect more from a guy than guys expect from a girl. Like the list of great qualities that girls look for in a guy is a lot longer than the list of great qualities that guys look for in a girl. So do you think it's harder for a guy to be attractive to a girl, appealing and get a girlfriend? or is it harder for a girl to be attractive to a guy, appealing, and get a boyfriend?