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As someone who doesn't want kids, one of the things I hear a lot from meddling busy bodies is "well what if you regret it?"

My answer is always that I'd rather not have them and regret it later on, than have them and end up regretting it. If I regret not having kids long after my biological clock stops ticking, I can adopt or foster or become a coach, spend more time with my nieces and nephews, etc. If I have them and regret it, I'm stuck with that choice and they're stuck with a mother who is unhappy and who they very well may sense regrets them.

To me, that makes the choice pretty damn easy.

So, my step-mom told me to move my shoes from the living room. I told her to wait, and she said "now." I said, "you're not my mama so you don't run shit." She said, "oh really?" Then she called my dad down and told him what I said. He was all like, "you better watch who you're talking to" DA DA DA. He kept pointing in my face and yelling at me. So, I told him "you better get your finger out my damn face, because I'm not scared of you." I really wanted to fight him, I know he can beat me but I was so pissed off. Then my step-mom tried to pull me back, again, I was pissed off and I do regret saying this. But I said, "get this cracker off of me." My dad grabbed my arms and was like, "who the fuck are you talking to?" I told him 3 times to let go of me and he wouldn't so I yanked myself from him and slapped him straight in his face. He threw me on the ground and my step-mom was trying to get him off. He had me on the ground holding my hands down so I kept kneeing him and trying to get him off of me and then my big brother came down and pulled him off of me then I got up, called him a bitch, flipped him off and then walked out and now I'm sitting at the park. He's calling me right now, but I'm still kind of mad and might try to fight him again. I'm willing to apologize to my step-mom for being rude and racist toward her. But, my dad? Nope. He can die

My parents are forcing me to marry this guy- he's an engineer and also he's rich. They think I'll be happy in my life if I get to marry this guy but I dun like him cz he's girly, weak when it comes to sex ( sexually harasses me even when I tell him I dun like being touched by him like wtf? A real man should understand a women's nature). I feel disgusted when he touch me. He's a psycho bz he threatens me like he'll die if I ever leave him and then once he called me a slut and then told me to get lost but then the next day he messaged me like nothing ever happened.
And then there's this guy, he asked me out yesterday, He's damn cute and sweet p. s he's a doctor. He respects me and really loves me but he's from a mixed race and so his cast is being a problem here. I dun get this, what the hell is wrong with my family, I told my cousin about this and he told me to stay away from him cz he's from a different cast? Seriously? . I really like him, his dimple and his smile... damn I really love him but I'm scared. I've planned on expressing my love today and also about my problem with that engineer... should I go for him? This feels so weird, I didn't sleep yesterday bz of this guy, I've been thinking about him all the time... I don't know what it is called.. but I think I seriously fell for him, I dun want to miss him... money is worth shit if there's no love or understanding between a couple but my mom had a hard time (money problem, she suffered a lot) so she thinks money is important... that's why... but my parents are really good and I love em.. but I'M scared when it comes to my future, I dun wanna miss a sweet heart like him, I dun mind sacrificing anything for him... I've sacrificed my happiness for my family but I can't anymore cz I want to live happily like others... I dun wanna marry a sex freak like that engineer and live a hell life regretting I've lost something precious. Help me, what should I do?