Talking To Girls

[NightmareNeal]

When it comes to talking to girls even the most confident guys could get nervous. I think that it's the fear of rejection or the whole world exploding, lol. I'm not going to say gay but flamboyant guys make it look easy. Why is that? Um maybe because it is.

I'm a good looking guy with an awesome personality and have always been smooth with the ladies. "How?", you ask? Well I just didn't give a damn. Talking to a 1 and talking to a 10 is virtually no different other than you probably want to date the 10.

I have always been confident but yet I was one of the most nervous people I know when talking to a female I want to ask out. This was because I had little experience with starting convos with anybody let alone a female I find attractive.

My fear of regret is what inspired me to get the ball rolling. And let me tell you, I'm never turning back. Who cares about rejection? I don't. No why? Because of this skill alone, keep chatting up the females who will get better and eventually land at least one.

This is myTake on talking to girls. thank you

~ Nightmare Neal

[Anonymous]

Whoa that last picture. He's a step away from being crushed. She too damn big to be riding on ANYONE'S shoulders lol.

[NightmareNeal]

😂😂😂

[Junlian]

Its terrible for me. I can get pass the hi, hows it going is about it. but me asking girls questions like
" get enough sleep?"
"How long it take you to do your hair?"
"Whats that you got on? It smells good."
I kinda understand its not meaningful questions but thats best i can do. I suck at talking with woman period. I get choked up with words when im around them. I dont know why? No its not rejection, or sounding stupid or anything. Slightly it might be the fact we have not much in common.

[NightmareNeal]

Either way the problem seems to be internal. Practice talking to yourself in the mirror. Practice talking to not so attractive

[NightmareNeal]

women.

[DarkHumorRUs]

"I'm a good looking guy with an awesome personality and have always been smooth with the ladies. 'How?', you ask--"

No, I didn't ask, because you're a good looking guy with an awesome personality so that IS how you talk to girls easily.

[NightmareNeal]

Just because you have desirable traits dosen't mean you can talk to girls with ease.

[DarkHumorRUs]

But I can talk to girls with ease and I don't haveany desirable traits so...

[NightmareNeal]

Exactly because you don't need those traits! Get it?

[DarkHumorRUs]

But the ability to talk to girls isn't what gets you girls. So just because I'm good at talking to them doesn't mean I can get a girlfriend, because I'm not that good looking.

[NightmareNeal]

Yea, this is just step 1 of many. All I'm saying is at least get this right then progress and work your way up. Maybe I'll do another myTake on this.

[IceEverest]

OOOOOO
.. OMG I forgot everything I read the moment I saw the last pic...

[NightmareNeal]

looks like you have some more reading to do 😂

[IceEverest]

Lol... Yes i have too...

[NightmareNeal]

Hey follow me if you liked the article 👍

[IceEverest]

Followed...

[Anonymous]

"Talking to a 1 and talking to a 10 is virtually no different other than you probably want to date the 10." yeah, expect for one very important thing and that is you, my friend, will never date a 10. sorry, hate to be the one to tell you the harsh truth not saying it to be a dick, but yeah, i can already tell from what i see here and felt it was important to point out

[NightmareNeal]

What are you talking about? And why are you so full of hate anonymous person? I only date 10s fyi 😂

[Opinion Owner]

lol.. so the guy who thinks he dates 10s is the same guy who thinks im "full of hate"? go figure

[NightmareNeal]

Believe whatever you want

[Opinion Owner]

that was a choice i made as soon as i finished reading your little rant. to believe what i want, i mean.

[NightmareNeal]

cool now get lost

[Anonymous]

Actually the only fear I have when talking to girls is they will get too attracted when I'm not interested in them. It's a relief when they are cool or even uninterested.

[NightmareNeal]

Yea I get that too.. a lot. This article is for that girl who is attractive, the one you want to be attached to you.

[letsnot]

"I'm so sexy, it hurts"

[Opinion Owner]

@letsnot

Not so much sexy as a good husband material. I wouldn't have minded just being so sexy it hurts.

[Anonymous]

Very interesting, the fear of rejection is my greatest problem too... combined with shyness and lack of self-confidence.

[NightmareNeal]

basically in a nutshell. overcome this it will get easier.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, but how can I overcome this?

[NightmareNeal]

The best way to overcome this is take a leap then after that take another. If your heart beat fast and you start to sweat then you know you should push foward. Then It becomes easier. Don't think just do I repeat don't think just do. I advise you to talk to girls you find unattractive and just practice talking then be the same way with your 10. If you get rejected so be it move on like seriously move on. Ain't no shame in your game. You got this.

[Anonymous]

i dont talk to women. i dont have the confidence for that and we have nothing in common to discuss. plus quite some of them have appalling characters

[NightmareNeal]

Talk to them as if you were talking to anybody else. You really don't need anything in common. I will do a my take on this. Follow for a detailed answer on your problem.

[Opinion Owner]

well i only have basic communication with them. i salute them if i get in a scenario where i'm oblidged to, and thats it. i don't care. i don't want to achieve anything with them, they are a waste of my time.

[NightmareNeal]

Talking to women and having a social life evolves you as a person. The world would suck if it was only some kind of way made of men. Talking to women is a waste of time only if you make it.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah kiddo. whatever you say.

[serious]

Good post!

[NightmareNeal]

thanks!