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So me and my boyfriend always talk on the phone every night and sometimes we argue about little things.. big things..
Then today, we got into an argument again
This was our conversation:
Him - so are we still going to watch movie with your friend and her boyfriend this week?
Me - yeah i think so
Him - i haven't seen him for a while. I wanna wear a tight shirt so he can see that I've been training hard and gotten bigger than before
Me - why u showing off for?
Him - what? Why do u think im training hard nowadays? I want to show everyone my body. To boost my confidence. Oh and one more thing, dont ever tell me what to wear again. You did that last time and it pissed me off. Dont control me.
Me - how am i controlling you? I only asked why u wearing better clothes when people we know are coming with us and u dont dress up when only us are going out
Him - coz we have been together for over a year. I dressed up in the beginning of our relationship and now we are used to each other. And i dont wanna look like a homeless person infront of your friends and other people we know. I dont want to embarrass you infront of them. Dont u get it?
Me - i just thought that you wanted to impress my friends and not me
Him - its not about impressing.. its different. And dont ever make me feel insecure around you again. Because if i feel insecure around you, i dont wanna be with you anymore. You can't control me and tell me what to wear, how to look. I wanna do my own thing. Let me do my own thing. If i was to pick gym or you, i would pick gym. I would pick my body obviously. Thats how it is.
Me - so im your last priority? You put your hobby infront of me
Him - its not a hobby.. its a passion. I love the gym. You can't make me quit it. Im not saying you're my last priority or putting it infront of you. Im just telling you its my passion
Should i be hurt and upset by this?
I was offended and hurt
I started crying and then he started to soften up abit
Does this mean he doesn't care about me?

Let's say you have a 18 year old sister who's pretty, shy and can be a little jerk at times. Your dad only makes 12 dollars an hour and you recently caught your dad buying your sister tight bras, short dresses and trying to coach your sister into having s*x with a 46 year old man for 100 dollars. He'd also try and get your sister to take off her clothes and shake her butt in front of dudes for money. Your dad says this is a great way to make money and you overheard your sister crying. If this was your dad would you still love him?

I've been called goth and attract people of that nature and I don't really try to.. (?) When guys hit on me they always try to sound dark or comment on how they're attracted to my, most recent line, "take on darkness in an optimistic light" or something along those lines. When I go out, I've had people comment on either my clothes or makeup.. sometimes compliments, sometimes rude mockery. I don't worship Satan. I'm a happy person for the most part, I don't like to brood. Sure I'm introverted and have no friends and spend most of my days listening to punk and goth music or watching movies and reading, or photographing my lovely cats, but really I just do what I like and now being on the internet (Instagram and Facebook), I get a lot of attention and it has me questioning myself.. or how others perceive me. Especially since I've mostly only started developing into who I am since I'm 21... I don't dress flamboyantly or super goth. I wear all black, love lace, corsets, tights, ripped clothing, fishnet, etc.. but I don't overly show it. Now I have people commenting on my style and I'm just more insecure now? >.<