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Search Results: gaining confidence
Why wasted effort is not wasted time - Bible Talk
In the bible, Solomon says that all hard work brings a profit but mere talk leads only to poverty. I also had a dream where God told me if I worry about the things that I can control that than God will worry about the...
How to get healthy in an unhealthy household?
I am almost 18 and I am struggling with my weight. Recently I looked at photos when I was younger and thought I was fat and found that I was the sort of skinny I want to be (at this time I was running cross country) I was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does my friend drag me down with her?
I have this friend and there have been numerous instances where she has projected her own feelings onto me, assuming we are dealing with the same problem. she once said to me ‘we are the same aren’t we, because we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does my friend make me feel so negative about myself whenever I speak to her?
I have this friend and there have been numerous instances where she has projected her own feelings onto me, assuming we are dealing with the same problem, and I always leave our conversations feeling drained and negative...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does my friend like to drag me down by saying I have no confidence?
I have this friend and there have been numerous instances where she has projected her own feelings onto me, assuming we are dealing with the same problem. she once said to me ‘we are the same aren’t we, because we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do parent's think its ok to constantly bring up their kid's weight?
my parents have been bringing it up since I was 8, and constantly putting me on diets. it ruined my self esteem in middle school and I've spent the past few years trying to gain confidence and like my body. i am not fat...
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Explorer Age: 22 Girls have you ever overlooked a guy who wasn’t confident but then later gained attraction for him when he had more confidence?
Girls always say they love confidence in guys. but what if a guy isn’t confident at first but later becomes confident? Have you ever gained attraction for a guy who grew confidence? Maybe you even rejected him at first...
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Master Age: 42 
Wife is abusive via neglect, what should I do?
A bit about my family. My wife and I have been together for 14 years, right out of highschool. In the first half of our relationship she was a normal, functional adult with the ability to work. I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Gaining confidence back, feeling like a bad bitch?
how do i gain back my confidence after losing it in a relationship? how do i learn to not give a fuck anymore? how do i learn to not care so much? because when i do care it just gets me hurt? and how do i move on? how do...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does my friend try to bring me down by saying I have no confidence?
I have this friend and there have been numerous instances where she has projected her own feelings onto me, assuming we are dealing with the same problem. she once said to me ‘we are the same aren’t we, because we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does my friend like to drag me down and assume I’m dealing with the same issues she is dealing with?
I have this friend and there have been numerous instances where she has projected her own feelings onto me, assuming we are dealing with the same problem. she once said to me ‘we are the same aren’t we, because we...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I gain self confidence?
I hate everything about myself, I've had people tell me I'm decent looking but I can't bring myself to try dating because I just feel like ill be a waste of someone's time.
Jimmmyboi
Xper 4 Age: 27 What is her problem?
I think I’m pretty but know I still have some insecurity issues to work out. Every time I see a pretty girl on the street I get inspired. I do wear makeup and am always looking for a better way to improve and get a lot of...
Anonymous
(18-24) I have keloid scars on my chest and shoulders and my boyfriend thinks they are ugly and would like me to remove them, but I think I don't need to?
Well, it would be a lie if I said I was never bothered about them. When I first had them I would wear clothes that would cover them up and I would feel insecure. But over the years I have matured and came to realised that...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I be ashamed?
I'm currently 26 years old and i suffer from social anxiety which has prevented me from gaining confidence throughout my life. I was a very nerdy guy in school and was bullied a lot due to my personality and looks so my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does certain dressing styles play a factor in attractiveness?
An example is my aesthetic. I am a goth black girl who wears - practically anything goth-like. I notice when I do wear certain clothes like some fancy dresses and boots, I get a handful of compliments because of my style....
KrisRez
Xper 6 Age: 31 New to working out and what I learned along the way
I am 36 years and am a diabetic for the past 15 years. I have had issues with keeping myself in shape and losing weight throughout my life growing up. I used to weight 160 pounds in high school but entering college, I...
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Guru Age: 41 Are women worth the effort?
All the improvements you have to make just to be seen as worthy or dateable wether that be working out for them or gaining confidence which one could argue arises from good experiences and other things. The more i think...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is fat shaming not ok but smoker shaming is ok?
NOTE: I'm neither fat nor a smoker. In our pc society, we are allowed to have separate smoking sections or to tell people to stop smoking. Some commonalities: -Smoking and fat shaming are unhealthy. -Both can...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, How to gain confidence at the gym?
Do you have any tips on how to have better self esteem at the gym? I’m a bigger girl.
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