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1. You're an idiot if you expect a woman to be a virgin or even remotely virginal, you will more then likely be stuck with someone's sloppy seconds.

2. If you're lucky, you can go 6 months before she decides to cheat on you for the most petty of reasons

3. Your Payroll and Your Dick determines your Value, your personality literally means jack shit.

4. She holds all the cards in the relationship. If she says jump, you ask how high.

5. She decides when it's time to have sex. If you even remotely pressure her or push her to sex it's sexual harassment.

6. She doesn't have to do anything and has no obligation to stay. Everything you do is to please her and If she finds something she thinks is better then she has every right to dump you without a second thought even if you did everything she wanted.

7. If she cheats on you, you weren't giving her enough attention. If you cheat on her, you are a horrible unfaithful human being.

8. If she dumps you its all your fault. it's always your fault. The woman is completely annulled of any responsibility should a relationship go sour.

9. The relationship isn't Girlfriend and Boyfriend. It's Master and Slave respectively.

Remember all that and you MIGHT have a semi-decent relationship. At least until she gets bored.

So my 30th birthday is coming up and I feel a bit down about it. One thing that gets me down is I'm going to be 30 and still a virgin. Not just that but I also never actually had a girlfriend. Actually I never even kissed a girl. This makes me feel like some weirdo or a loser.

I mean I have gone on a few dates before but not many, less then 10. I have had a handful of women ask me out on dates but for the most part I would just turn them down since I wouldn't be interested in them.

I only asked out a few women myself, less then have asked out me. But the thing for me is I find I have to get to know a girl and become her friend before I start to find myself interested in dating her. So by this point they usually just see me as a friend or they have lost interest in me or they were never interested in me to begin with. That and I am just horrible at picking up on when someone is flirting with me or is interested in me, I just assume they are being friendly.

I like to think that I'm a normal, nice guy. But just had bad luck. That and I'm a bit of an introvert so I have trouble meeting and opening up to new people. I wouldn't consider myself unattractive and I have had many women tell me they find me attractive so I don't see it as that. Whenever anyone mentions my past relationships or sexual partners I just lie since I find it so embarrassing.

I'm curious what women think of a guy like me. Do they see me as weird and a loser? Would they actually have an interest in dating a guy like me or no? What are just their general thoughts on a guy like me? Any advice you have for me to help me change this situation I'm in? Give me your honest opinion.