Search Results: love after lust

How do relationships usually start for you? is it someone you barely know or someone you hardly know?

I guess there are 2 options: 1. you know that person already quite well when you fall in love and start the relationship 2. you don't really know that person but you get physical anyway and then start a relationship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Coping with intense hurt after being ghosted while madly in love, help?

I know what I did - what he did too - was wrong. He was married with a child. We fell in love, this is all online but we became limerent for each other to the point were it was unbearable, madly in love even. We know...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does how you feel about someone affect how you kiss?

If you just lust after her vs if you like her as well as are attracted to her vs if you are in love with her Do you kiss differently on purpose or it happens automatically? Are you aware? Just curious...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

If you just lust after her vs if you like her as well as are attracted to her vs if you are in love with her Do you kiss differently on purpose or it happens automatically?

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Family & Friends

Why does my brother like to bring me down?

So ever since I got skinny and started to work out to get abs and look more built he would tell me “you would look bad if you had abs” which after that comment we had an argument, and today our mom asked us if we were...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I asked my boyfriend how does he know he loves me. Good or bad answer?

He said he just knows that he loves me. When he looks at me he gets feelings that he doesn’t get when he looks at anyone else. And that when he thinks of me he gets butterflies. After 2 years together he still gets...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to Escape The Friendzone in Just 5 Steps

“Oh, we’re just friends.” As a guy who's trying his best to attract this one special girl, don’t you hate hearing those words?! It turns a friendship platonic, impotent and limp. It makes your lust for her seem so...

bobair

Influencer Age: 51

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Demisexuality: How It Works as An Adult

During my years at the university, I focused more on my studies than I did my romantic relationships. But along the way I've made amazing friends that I still keep contact with even after I graduated and moved away. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Why are so many overweight girls unwilling to date overweight guys?

I have several overweight girlfriends in my dorm who I've known since freshman year. They are super sweet and fun to be around, but they never have dates because most guys are superficial in college. One of them has...

TayTay21

Yoda Age: 29

Family & Friends

A Letter to a Surprising Friend, and His Help in Climbing Out of What Seemed to be a Bottomless Black Hole

I know this will be more helpful to me than anyone else, and also since this is anonymous and the person I'm writing about doesn't know about my account nor that this site even exists, then its not going to get to back to...

19magic

Guru Age: 29

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He chose a plain girl over me. Why?

We met when I was 28 and I lusted after him for two years, but obviously he’d rather be with her. The thing is, I’m what most guys would consider perfect girlfriend material. I’m hot with an hourglass figure, take good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why am I so insecure? Look at me?

This is me. My cousins parties coming up soon and me and my boyfriend are going however there are some gorgeous girls going to this party, I know my boyfriend loves me and he would never go for anyone else but there’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend in lust with me vs. being in love?

Hello, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and are now long distance. Ever since we've been in long distance after 3 weeks, it just seems like things are a little off. Sometimes when he says he will...

Pisilli

Xper 2 Age: 29

If a guy is still lusting after his ex while with you, does he love you?

Bresha__

Xper 5 Age: 33

Online dating.. can they be trusted?

I met this guy on a stranger app.. i was there for fun.. we started to chat.. n can say there was an instant click.. so we proceeded further.. later on he bacame a part of my routine.. this went on for about 15 days.. n...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it love, crush or lust?

I like a guy in my university he's hot and nice he's volunteering, we took 9 subjects together, but i haven't talked to him in person, he didn't notice my existance back then, but i do remember details about him.. I no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he in love with me?

so he is my sisters brother in law.. A week before my sister got marry to his brother.. We saw each other at the marriage.. He already knew about me as his brother told him that I am sister of his wife.. so on marriage he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do I do about this guy /: ? What are guys thinking when they say "I dont want to hurt you, but..." ?

Sophomore year (16) I met this guy (19) at my first job. We had a mutual love and chemistry for each other. We would try to go on breaks together and cuddle, he was like an older brother that I could talk to. There was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Could the reason my brother left his ex for someone else be because he had lust toward another girl?

My brother up and left his girlfriend of a year for another girl he met while away at a job program. Me and her were pretty close. I liked her out of all the girlfriends he had. He Didn’t tell her why or what she did, she...

AngeeLL

Xper 5 Age: 29