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All of my closest friends, including my "best" friend and roommate, started up a group on Facebook where they make plans to go out all the time. This started after I told them I was tired of being the one to organize ALL of the meetups by myself with no help from any of them. I was never added to this group, so I'm never even aware of these meetups taking place.

I found out, because I was home when my roommate was heading to one of them. I asked her where she was going, because I wanted to know how long she would be out to see if we could make plans together. She told me where she was going and with whom. I obviously got upset.

Then, my roommate tells me that she told all of them, that I wouldn't want to attend that evening, because I'd be spending time with my boyfriend, whom was working all night. But this never actually happened, she never said this to them, she just told me that she had said this, so that I wouldn't be mad at the rest of them. The fuck? So basically, she spoke on my behalf, without checking with me. So obviously she's the problem, right?

I confronted them, to inform them that my roommate doesn't speak for me, and they told me about the Facebook group. They refuse to admit that I was intentionally left out because the information was right there in the group for all to see, and they're all pointing the finger at each other saying that someone else should have added/invited me to the group, and that I have no right to be upset, because it's "no big deal", and I'm just being a drama queen.