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We both want to take it slow and making-out just happened (on our second date). I need to tell him how I am feeling, but I don’t know how to bring it up.
What should I say? (In person):
A.
Or
B.

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I really like this guy and he really likes me, I just want him to like me for me before we get romantic. We’ve only had 3 dates so I think making out for over an hour is a little much.
I am pretty much just trying to draw out some boundaries before it’s too late (and there is nothing left to build an emotional connection on). What advice can you give me for building these boundaries early? Also what convo starter (A or B) sounds better?
Thank you so much :)

Met this guy on tinder. We have been texting for about 3 weeks. Not looking for a hookup, or anything of that matter (hence why I chose tinder lol). We scheduled to go tomorrow but I’m having second thoughts... hear me out before you assume I’m a flake. He has become very casual and subtle with his texting. At first it was large paragraphs and I felt an internet connection, now I don’t feel a thing. He doesn’t text me unless I initiate it, doesn’t ask me any questions about myself, Leaves me on read 80% of the time, busy all day... yet still texts over people (I can see his snap score). Is he just a shitty texter? We will be going to a nearby creek, swimming.
Listen, this will be my first date ever and I don’t know what to do. Please give me some advice, hopefully I gave you enough to work with. Thanks!