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I started talking to this girl I was familiar with from high school a few months ago and we seemed to click instantly. We both recently got out of long term relationships and got hurt. It felt we basically got into a relationship, long distance, because she was a few hours away for school.
But she opened up about a lot of very personal things, like how she felt in her family. Her past sexual experience, and relationships among other things.
But when we actually met up, she said everything sounded great and she felt ready, but she still isn't over her ex boyfriend. He really hurt her and she feels she needs closure still.
She's severly limited how much we talk, and I'm not sure what to do and what to say. Help?
I don't understand why she'd open up so much and then be like this

With regard to sexual attraction, do you have a type? Are their certain physical features that you can't resist? What is your ideal regarding physical attractiveness. Do you limit yourself to that type?

I realized not long ago that I have a type, which really threw me off. I've always been able to find beauty in almost every woman, and really most of those I have been with- be it dating or flings- don't even match my type.

One day, after thinking about the celebrity crushes I had growing up it hit me- they all look pretty similar.

5'4" or under, pale white skin, small to medium build, with small to medium sized breasts. Proportionality being the key. Dark brown, or black hair, either straight or light curls.

Subconsciously this is apparently my ideal form of beauty in a woman, and it took me an embarrassingly long time to realize it.

Give me 4 solid basis for why you think your answer is correct.

https://christianity.stackexchange.com/questions/6782/what-does-the-bible-say-about-life-before-conception

I think only before our conception do we have nothingness. I think once God thinks us into conception through sexual intercourse via our parents or a sperm donor product into the female reproductive system, then our eternity is limited to conception to forever.

If you're an atheist and believe in an option other than A, then please tell me why and give me your 4 basis.

My 4 basis is:
1. We were formed in our mother's wombs and mothers are life givers God created to bring into existence.
2. To have eternal existence including before conception would mean we existed co-equally as with God and means we were not truly created.
3. To have an existence of eternality to have never experienced human form makes a mockery of our purpose of creation.
4. For something this valuable, the Bible would have been clear that we existed before conception and it doesn't, thus, leading me to believe our only nothingness was before conception.

When watching a movie with my girlfriend or and all of a sudden it shows female frontal nudity or full nudity my girlfriend does not like it. She doesn't make a big deal but she says that showing a girls genitals should be off limits. She gets annoyed with topless scenes but she says she can deal with it.

I feel for her. She must feel its so wrong. What is your opinion? What should be done about it? Show less female nudity... more male nudity...