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I'll just state facts about what has happened between me, and my boyfriend to let you guys decide on if we should continue it or not. We have been dating for a couple of years. Initially, he lied to me about many things because he felt like he "had to" because his previous relationships weren't good. He doesn't "remember" when I try to discuss something that has happened in the past either, like yesterday I was trying to talk about an issue where I asked him for a ride but he declined saying his car was unavailable in the moment. So, we just took my car and shortly after parting ways (we don't live together) I see a girl post a picture of him, her, and another girl in the backseat of his truck on social media taking them to the grocery store. He said he "had to" take them because he didn't want to be rude since they were already climbing in his car (which I later found out that him and that girl had a romantic relationship I didn't know about until recently since he never told me when I asked). He even gave his jacket to another girl saying that it was just out of friendship/kindness.

He gets upset/jealous over one male friend in particular, and I had to stop talking to him just to make my boyfriend happy which still didn't work because my boyfriend gets upset whenever I plan to see the opposite gender anywhere doing anything because it's "unsafe," and even tell his mom to tell me not to go if I was determined to. I'm just not sure on what to do or how to go about this relationship because I have tried to be as patient as possible. What gets me mainly is the fact that when he confessed about all of his lies, he didn't have an exact date/plan on telling me/coming clean. What do you think? Is this relationship toxic or what? The only "wrong" thing I have done towards him was having to be flirtatious to men at my retail job so they could sign up for the credit card which is what the company determines on who they fire.

So my boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs. In the past, he has given another girl his jacket, lied to me majority of the time (while knowing he was lying and did not have a definite plan/date on telling me the truth), lied to me about different girl's history with him the first week into dating him (he said they weren't anything when in fact they were), not listening to me when I ask him to not do certain things like buying me stuff (even when I tell him that he can give it to me on a later day), and only talking to me when it's most convenient for him on his schedule.

The lying happened towards the beginning of the relationship, he eventually had to come clean whenever I discovered his previous relationship with that girl. We've been dating for a year and a half now. My huge relationship no no is lying/dishonesty and he knew that yet lied for so long. But i feel like he's taking advantage of me because he knows that I have that "reap what I sow" mentality for this relationship. I've been the best girlfriend I could be ever since I have been dating him but he's been the opposite but I'm hoping that he eventually does turn out alright. I feel like he's taking advantage of me physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially. He doesn't ask for money (sometimes) or gifts but I feel like I'm obliged to since he doesn't have much money himself since he's still in college when I'm not. I'm not sure on what to do. He does make me happy every now and then but I feel like that only happens when I'm trying to not think about what he's done to me or get caught up in the conversation (s). Tell me what you guys think.

I'm in a long distance relationship because of covid-19. Honestly, I don't know why !
In my previous relationship, I wasn't jealous at all , however, maybe because I admire him more and I think he is perfect! I feel super jealous if he follows some girls on instagram , and I used to tell him indirectly, however, now i don't open the issue at all because I know it's abnormal to feel jealous just because your boyfriend follow another girl on instagram.
I'm also always afraid he may find other girls more attractive or smarter than me. Although , I'm smart and pretty but you know there will be always someone who is better than you no matter what. I don't know if it's normal because my culture ( middle east) or i'm mentally not healthy and I don't know how to work on these issues , I always want to be just the best in my boyfriend's eyes, and I'm always afraid that my boyfriend may find a girl who likes her more :( !
I don't know how to stop comparing myself to other girls.
Sorry , for my bad English , English is my second language but I hope you guys get it.