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He is of same origin as me but went abroad to study but I have been in my home town ever since. I'm very simple and have a small family of just me mom dad and my bro. We never saw or met each other in person but he wrote to me in FB which I ignored twice for a year and finally replied one fine day and after that we talked for 2 days all day and suddenly on day 2, he asked me for a serious relationship with intention to marry and I agreed. He also introduced me to his mom on the video call right after that on the same day ( after our second online date got over). We never sext-ed but we did talk about love, got to know each other fast track, our hobbies, education and career. It's funny that we are together since more than a year now 2020, 3rd April ( I was 23, he 24) we entered into a serious relationship ( he proposed to me). He is richer than me ( which I got to know later). His mom said me that at 26-27 you both will get married and both are very excited. I don't know sometimes how can anyone be so confident so fast? How can his mom/family be so confident for me? He is honest and loyal too and surprisingly I've been too. His dad and all relatives know of me too. Sometimes I used to be afraid if they're playing me or anything, but I tried to research to check if he is genuine and it turned out that he is. One thing is that he lied to me about the fact that his dad is in textiles but his dad is a director of a fortune 500 company. We talk less ( does not share his lifestyle ) but he keeps assuring me that he loves me may be so that I don't feel insecure or inferiority complexed. He tested me many times to make sure I'm not a gold digger ( which I'm not). I refused to take gifts or give one and anything else related to money and yesterday on a conference call with him and his mom, his mom keeps opening up to me like once in 6 months, of what all they have, slowly and I feel good but I don't express that I feel good and I'm like ok and then we end the call.

Hi everyone,

I [31/F] have met a really great guy [34/F] on Bumble. We have had a bunch of FaceTime pseudo-dates, but unfortunately we've been unable to have a date in a cafe or restaurant because of government enforced lockdowns. He has invited me over to his house, and I feel comfortable doing so after seeing him and his house on camera.

I have quite a complex medical history because I have lupus, which I have told him about. He was fine with it, and his biggest concern at the moment seems to be that I can't tolerate horror movies. I haven't yet told him I have a hand tremor, but it will be obvious once we meet. It is not degenerative - it is a condition called essential tremor. It significantly affects my fine motor skills, including eating.

Would it bother you if your date had a hand tremor?

Also, how would you recommend telling him? I may be getting surgery for it in the future, but all non-urgent surgery is currently cancelled because of COVID-19, so there's a chance I may not have a tremor in the future.

Thank you in advance!

I have had my fair share of experiences with men.

And I can say that from personal experience, men are the most emotional creatures! This is not a jab, but the male ego is so fragile. Which leads to misunderstandings, aloofness, and disagreements! From cock fights between guys or men not being to handle what they've done to someone else (cheating). Or simply being overly offended and worked up by hearing the word no!

I love men but I feel like they need to be coddled.