Guys, Will a man who wants you sexually ever look at you in a different way?

[Anonymous]

I carry myself well. I am educated. I was with a man for a time in which we became overly attracted sexually to each other. We also got along in all ways. It ended up badly. Now , he's back but he's with someone else this time. Are there any men out there who will make a relationship with that they are out of control attracted to? Or do you end up with women you are not sexually attracted to and earn for more. Just curious. Do all of you have the Madonna/whore complex?

[Jamie05rhs]

No, I do not have a Madonna/whore complex. I would much prefer to get married to a woman that I am attracted to. That's one of the reasons I'm not married yet, because I reject a lot of girls simply because I don't find them pretty at all. (Please don't be mad; I'm just being honest.). But the plus side is my wife will never have to worry about me cheating on her. I'm not one of those gullible idiots who marries someone "ugly" looking because they "have a good heart" and "love Jesus.". I'm sorry; that's great and everything, but it's just not good enough for me.

[Asker]

Why do men marry women they don't find as attractive and then leave the ones they can't forget about

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker Because they aren't following their hearts. They're trying to impress others and fit in with social expectations.

[Asker]

Omygosh, that makes so much sense... so , is what your saying...
Some may marry someone who " appears " socially acceptable" who " portrays morals and values" and " who looks the part" and , someone who " fits in"

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, ma'am. That's correct.

[Jamie05rhs]

And on the female side, she might marry a tall rich guy for the same reasons.

[Asker]

So, maybe that's why so many people are unhappy.

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably. 🤷

[t-8900]

I don't tend to go after IG model level women because they have so many options I know I can't keep them. A woman with an honest heart can win me over