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He keeps his phone hidden. Girls call and he says they are friends. Shouldn't I have met them? Her? Why not invite her over? He has met my guy friends. I have also let him stay with my phone whenever he wants. He lives with me but deleted me as a fb friend. I never posted anything on his wall. No personal private issues. What's wrong? We shouldn't have secrets. When I ask a question he asks why am I asking. I say because I can. He can ask me anything. I'm fine with it. But when I ask... its a problem and he says why am i asking i have more important things to worry about. he is my family and a concern of mine. I can't stress him on everything because we would never be Happy. I keep holding this in. I feel he is wrong or doing wrong. I really wish he would tell me that this relationship isn't for him or that he feels he is missing out on something else but he won't admit anything he says he loves me and I don't feel that anymore he is cheated on me a lot I'm trying to get over it I don't argue with him about it because I feel if I can't get over it then him and I can never move forward he keeps doing things to make me feel like I just can't trust him and today a girl called and he was giving her some kind of advice and talking to her on the phone and he seems pretty genuine about his advice and it's really crazy if I spoke to him he wouldn't understand anything but it's a stranger or an outsider spoke to him he would just be the sweetest most genuine understanding guy but with me he isn't like that after 7 years I'm not sure what to do but I just feel like giving up I feel like I'm never going to win I feel like I'm fighting a battle that's not my battle I wish you could be honest with me and just tell me if he feels he's missing out on something else and wants to explore vs wasting any more years we already wasted

I'm referring to love of all kinds; in relationships, in friendships, in family, etc.

Love is tough at times, and tender at others.

I understand that both tough and tender love are needed and wanted, but which do you prefer?

Which do you respond to more intensely?

What has influenced your preference, do you think?

Thanks for answering :-)

Romney has changed his position on so many issues. He continuously makes an ass of himself and I can't get behind his views.

This is how Obama's presidency has effected me and why id never vote for Romney...

Romney supports Paul Ryan's budget plan to cut pell grants, which helped me pay for college.

He wants to "protect the sanctity of life" and "see Roe Vs wade overturned" This is an insult to all women and it sets us back an entire generation. Women have fought too hard to have the freedom to decide out own health.

He supports making women who want an abortion watch their ultrasound and filing a copy of it in their medical records even if they don't want that. Another way to make this more difficult, shameful and painful for the woman.

He wants to end federal funding on planned parenthood which provides care to thousands of women who couldn't otherwise afford or have access to birth control and gynecological care.

The money he has that he didn't inherit, he made shutting down companies and firing their American workers. Now he wants to take power away from unions...my dad works in construction and wouldn't have been able to support our family so well without the unions support and stability.

Romney's opposed to gay marriage and wants a constitutional amendment defining marriage as a relationship between a man and a woman. My best friend is gay and she deserves the right to marry just as much as I do.

People hate obamacare, Romney wants to "kill it on his first day as president", without these health care reforms I wouldn't have good health coverage right now

These are the things that effect my life and that are important to me. that's why I'm voting for Obama. Even if he is the lesser of two evils, he's the only option in my mind.