Girl...drop this guy. He said he that because he KNOWS you will pay for it. You pay for everything else...why not the ticket...why are you with this guy? You have a great job...I'm sure you have your own place and car...you need a man who can benefit you.
What will happen if you lost your job? (Not wishing anything bad, just hypothetically) If you lost your job you wouldn't be able to spend money on him like you used to and his ass would go running to someone else who can.
What will happen when he finally does get a job...you think he will return the favor?
He wasn't joking when he said that...he was dead serious.
Here's what you need to do.
Cut back on spending money on him. He's a grown man...he has a job and can pay for things himself. What is he doing with the money he makes? Stop being his sugar mama.
Stop buying dinner...stop buying expensive gifts...and his true colors will show.
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you can maybe tell him that you're planning on buying something big (e.g. a house for your parents), so you have to save money and can we go dutch? Some kind of test like that.
From the way I read your question, I think he isn't for the following reasons:
1) It sounds like you both met prior to you getting your great job. A proper gold digger would make sure you were wealthy first.
2) He is still engaged in productive activity (i.e., at school). No signs of giving up work and just leeching off you.
I think he made that joke is because deep down he feels less of a man being unable to contribute to the relationship. He has either turned into feeling like your toy or maybe his own values tell him he should be the one financially leading the way.
You both should talk about it. I don't think he's digging you up for gold though.
People tend to fall into patterns, and he's soused to yu paying for things that he's starting to assume you always will. he probabl isn't aware of this, himself.
it'snot that he doesn't love you, it's just the different situations you are in. Don't worry about it too much'
if the sitaution were reversed, most people would just call it normal, since guys are 'supposed' to be the bread winner and ;'supposed' to be paying for most things.
But when it's the woman paying, suddenly there must be something WRONG...
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Sounds exactly like a gold digger. Get rid of this dude.
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