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I seem to be caught in a love triangle between one of my best guy friends from school and his ex. Him and I have had feelings for each other for about a year but both of us have been dating other people until a couple months ago.

He visited me a couple months ago and kissed me when he was still with his girlfriend. They ended up breaking up, and we have been talking more ever since. I went to visit him and he was very sweet, holding me a lot and kissing me and it felt nice that we could finally get a chance to see what happens between us.

His ex was furious she found out I went to visit, she asked a couple of my friends to spy on us and is super immature and draws him in with sex. I got a text from him last night saying that we might be better of as just friends, and of course it's because his ex went to visit.

I told him to be a man and call me and I said I get you still care about your ex, but do you care about me? And he said of course he does.

Our mutual friends say that he really likes both of us, but is bad with distance which both his ex and I are far away from him right now and he really just focuses on who is there at that moment. When I visited he ignored the many texts and calls he got from his ex. All of our mutual friends say they want him to make a decision, which I want too but I'm not about to wait around.

Now I'm stuck because I've cared about him for so long, but I don't like to get myself in the middle of dramatic situations and I'm not about to give up being single with the way he is acting. I'm still bummed and just can't let go. What can I do?