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So far my dating life has been nonexistent and I feel somewhat behind and left out from what all of my peers around me are experiencing. A few guys have shown interest in me, but I was not interested in them. The guys that I did have interest in, did not have interest in me. I even shot my shot twice. The first time I got rejected, the second time the guy just played with my feelings and pretended to be interested in me, so I ended things. I wouldn't say I'm particularly off-putting. Maybe I am a little too confident, but I think I am in fairly good shape and am a good person. I exercise regularly, have plenty of friends that I think can attest to my positive attributes, like being funny and open minded, and have goals in life. I honestly don't think I am below any of the other girls who do have boyfriends and constant male attention, but obviously I don't consider myself to be above them. Will it be easier to get into a relationship once I leave high school? I am graduating this year. I know that I could have just dated one of the guys that showed prior interest in me, but I would never want to get into a relationship with someone who I have no attraction to "just because" and then leading them on (like what happened to me), I would rather have it be where we are mutually romantically interested in one another. I just don't get what these girls are doing to get swarmed by guys...

I've encountered a couple weird things I don't think it's a coincidence anymore. My very first time this happened, I was 8 years old. I dreamt about two white guys (one in black pants and another in blue) having a long conversation with me, then dragging me away, placing me in the car, driving away and I was screaming. I woke up screaming and was relieved it was just a dream.

Two weeks later, my parents, older sister and I went to the mall. Being curious and adventurous, I wandered off for a bit and went to different store across from where we were. Several mins later or so, I heard someone talking to me. I turned around and it was those two men from my dream, blue jeans and black pants. The one in blue jeans had a creepy smile. I screamed so loud that everyone could hear me. Seconds later, people rushed over to see what happened and I was returned back to my worried parents and sister. About 6 months later or so, two men got arrested for drugs and being caught in the act of leading a 6 year-old girl from the playground. The parents got their on time. The father beat up one of them. Coincidence? I don't think so.

Last year, I dreamt about my best friend saying she had a surprise. She wouldn't tell me what the surprise was. Everything seemed so weird. Then suddenly her fiance seemed all stressed out and they were arguing. Several months later, she spread the news of her pregnancy, their first child. It brought peace between the guy and her parents, who initially hated him. I've had several other dreams over the years. A couple are direct and come true just like in the dream and others come true in other ways.

So are premonitions like the 1st one I had real?